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Did you know what it is in your state before seeing this map? I did not, I thought all states would be 18.
Many states have a Romeo & Juliet law. I did not know that either. It can be used as an actual legal defense when the participants are close in age and are minors. In California any sexual activity with someone under 18 can be considered statutory rape while in Texas a 15 year old and an 18 can engage in sex without it being considered a child sex crime.
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I too thought the age was 18. Just goes to show you learn some things every day!
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I was 16 and my husband was 18 when we got married, my mom just had to sign a consent form. My dad refused to sign and now here I am with this miserable fucktard. My dad was right lol. I do have three wonderful kids though so I can’t complain because I wouldn’t have them otherwise and I love them more than anything.
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Did you give him your virginity? That is massively personal so if you want to ignore me, be my guest.
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No, the first guy I did it with was 27 and really hot. I was 14 at the time and the fact that he was good looking doesn’t make up for the fact that he was a creepy pedophile. In my 14 year old mind though I didn’t think of it that way. Probably the same as a teenage boy fucking the hot teacher. Now that I’m old and have my own kids I know how seriously fucked up that is.
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None of us thought that way at 14, we would all probably feel flattered that an older, good looking guy was paying attention to us.
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Yeah and they know it. Nobody wants an ugly fucker perving on them, but when it’s a good looking person then it seems more acceptable. Especially with good looking women and teenage boys. If some adult woman was messing around with my 14 year old son I’d kill that gorgeous bitch. Then my son would be all mad that I killed his fine ass 30 year old girlfriend.
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(Yesterday, 06:21 PM)Duchess Wrote: None of us thought that way at 14, we would all probably feel flattered that an older, good looking guy was paying attention to us.
I slept with some ugly ass older guys at the age of 14. I didn’t think of myself as a victim (because I had no damn sense or parental education at that age). I wasn’t “flattered”. No one had actually taught me what to expect and how to handle unwanted attention (so I “went along” more than I should have).
I armed my daughter (and son) early on. We started having that conversation when they were around 5, lol. I might have overreacted a bit.
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When my daughter was 7 the little kid across the street spent the night and put a bunch of porn on her school work tablet, the nasty little bastard. It got infected with a virus or something and all of this porn was just going off the heezey. My daughter was traumatized and I was stuck having to tell her about the birds and the bees and fucking porn. Not exactly what I wanted to do at that moment.
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(Yesterday, 07:15 PM)sally Wrote: When my daughter was 7 the little kid across the street spent the night and put a bunch of porn on her school work tablet, the nasty little bastard. It got infected with a virus or something and all of this porn was just going off the heezey. My daughter was traumatized and I was stuck having to tell her about the birds and the bees and fucking porn. Not exactly what I wanted to do at that moment.
Aww, shit.
Like I said, I overreacted. I told my two how babies were made when they were 6-7. Little did I know my daughter would share it with her elementary school friends on the playground soon after. I got some grief for that.
Almost worse was when she looked me dead in the eye and accused me of being Santa Claus (which also went around the school yard).
I couldn’t lie to them.
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My daughter asked me if she should tell her little cousin Sam about the birds and the bees too. I told her no don’t do that, she’s 5 years old and I think my brother in law might get pissed lol. She also went to first grade and told all of the kids to put their teeth that fell out under their pillow, but don’t tell your parents and see what happens. Real little asshole she was.
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