WHAT HAPPENED?

[BlueTiki]

I think the sense of shame has died.

Sadly, so do I.

I believe shame requires personal responsibility and ownership of one’s conduct; a conscience, too.

Now, we are conditioned to believe that we are victims and therefore, not responsible for our deeds and feelings. We are all broken but, it’s not our fault. Since it's not our fault, we are not responsible and since we are not responsible, we have no shame.

Stroll down the aisles of a brick and mortar book store. Search online. Self-improvement and awareness is no longer a niche market. Human repair manuals and you get to be the mechanic fixing the problem.

Look around . . . at your job, in your neighborhood, at the market, in church or a bar. Do the folks you see look like qualified mechanics to you?

[Duchess]

Look around . . . at your job, in your neighborhood, at the market, in church or a bar. Do the folks you see look like qualified mechanics to you?

I do look around & I don't see many people I would willingly invite into my home. Unfortunately, I tend to form opinions of others by how they present themselves. Dirty slobs turn me off, I don't care how nice they are, stay the fuck away from me. If you don't speak English in the proper way, don't talk to me, I think you're stupid. If your kid is nothing more than a wild lil' animal, I think you're a lazy bastard & that kid probably shouldn't have been born.

[IMaDick]

If it's the parents fault then it weighs mostly to the side of the mother.

so as a simple deduction women are fucked up thus they raise fucked up kids.

I can deal with that.

[Duchess]

If it's the parents fault then it weighs mostly to the side of the mother.

Back in the day when women were stay at home moms I would have agreed with that but, I think we are at a point where both parents share the responsibility given that most mothers are part of the work force now. Not many will agree with this but, I don't think people should be having kids if they don't have the time to devote to them. You only get one chance to do it right.

[IMaDick]

Our system will put a Mother on welfare so she can raise her kids and chase a working Father to the ends of the earth to collect child support, our system weighs heavily to the side of the Mother Men do not have equal rights with their kids the evidence of this is extensive.

The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure thus we deal with their fucked up kids, no matter how it's looked at the decline of the family and it's core values begins and ends with the women being the lead fuck up in the changes we see in our society.

[sally]

I think every child at the age of 5 should start a daily regimen of Adderall, Ritalin, and Lexapro for their ADHD, OCD, anxiety, depression and hallucinations. Also weekly visits with a psychologist and the Catholic priest. You have to nip it in the bud when they're young.

[sally]

Why the fuck was my post count back to 3330? I distinctly remember passing that number a while ago.

[Lady Cop]

Why the fuck was my post count back to 3330? I distinctly remember passing that number a while ago.

i don't pay attention to anyone's post counts, but i assure you we haven't altered yours! unless you're kidding? i do recall that we had a little joke in some thread about your count being half of 6606/evil.

[sally]

Why the fuck was my post count back to 3330? I distinctly remember passing that number a while ago.

i don't pay attention to anyone's post counts, but i assure you we haven't altered yours! unless you're kidding? i do recall that we had a little joke in some thread about your count being half of 6606/evil.

Yep I remember now, it was 3303. I don't like things in 3's and I jumped to conclusions. See, this is exactly what happens when you're not treated for OCD and ADHD at an early age.

[Lady Cop]

Why the fuck was my post count back to 3330? I distinctly remember passing that number a while ago.

i don't pay attention to anyone's post counts, but i assure you we haven't altered yours! unless you're kidding? i do recall that we had a little joke in some thread about your count being half of 6606/evil.

Yep I remember now, it was 3303. I don't like things in 3's and I jumped to conclusions. See, this is exactly what happens when you're not treated for OCD and ADHD at an early age.

i'll bet i'm a worse OC than you.
i'm glad i remembered that post!

[username]

If it's the parents fault then it weighs mostly to the side of the mother.

That right thar is a load of bullshit. If a couple chooses to have a baby BOTH parents are responsible for how the kid is raised. Otherwise men are just useless sperm donors who bring home a paycheck and leave their dirty clothes and dishes all over the place and basically behave like children themselves...oh, wait.

[BlueTiki]

The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure thus we deal with their fucked up kids . . .

Just to make sure I understand your position, "The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure . . . " and not because we are greedy fucks and thus, adopted the "Two Paycheck" household mentality?

"WE" of course being both men and women.

[aknow]

I think every child at the age of 5 should start a daily regimen of Adderall, Ritalin, and Lexapro for their ADHD, OCD, anxiety, depression and hallucinations. Also weekly visits with a psychologist and the Catholic priest. You have to nip it in the bud when they're young.

The Catholic Priest will necessitate more and stronger meds for that child.

Some of what's wrong is Americans. Spoiled, semi-literate know nothings who listen to false idols and real morons like those who scream at you on AM radio. Also, the internet has made semi-conscious people
believe and buy into the fact that they deserve instant gratification.
What do you expect children to act like, who've never seen anything but the internet?

[IMaDick]

The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure thus we deal with their fucked up kids . . .

Just to make sure I understand your position, "The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure . . . " and not because we are greedy fucks and thus, adopted the "Two Paycheck" household mentality?

"WE" of course being both men and women.

It's called the equal right amendment, do your own fucking homework you lazy bitch.

women pressed for minority status, they wanted out of the apron and on to the casting couch, it still goes on today with equal pay for semi equal work.

check out the uni sex bathrooms, why the fuck do I have to see fucking tampon dispensers on the fucking wall while I'm taking a shit?

woman were designed to take care of kids and serve man, the natural order of shit has been fucked up by the unrelenting bitching of women everywhere.

how do you think that any thing in today's society can be right when everything is all fucked around, no fucking supper made when the man comes home, no fucking milk and cookies for the kids when they come home from school, shit they are lucky if they get a frickin TV dinner, here johnny go play this fucking video game and leave mommy alone she don't have time for your sorry ass.

sperm donor? funny you should bring that shit up, tell you what go and sit in on a few divorce proceedings , that is exactly how men are treated when it comes to parental rights.

burn your bra, do the fucking world a favor and leave it one and burn it OK?

I hope this is clear enough for you to understand???

[Greeneyesofblue]

Our system will put a Mother on welfare so she can raise her kids and chase a working Father to the ends of the earth to collect child support, our system weighs heavily to the side of the Mother Men do not have equal rights with their kids the evidence of this is extensive.

The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure thus we deal with their fucked up kids, no matter how it's looked at the decline of the family and it's core values begins and ends with the women being the lead fuck up in the changes we see in our society.

Wow Dick! You are so totally fucking CORRECT with that!

[Greeneyesofblue]

The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure thus we deal with their fucked up kids . . .

Just to make sure I understand your position, "The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure . . . " and not because we are greedy fucks and thus, adopted the "Two Paycheck" household mentality?

"WE" of course being both men and women.

It's called the equal right amendment, do your own fucking homework you lazy bitch.

women pressed for minority status, they wanted out of the apron and on to the casting couch, it still goes on today with equal pay for semi equal work.

check out the uni sex bathrooms, why the fuck do I have to see fucking tampon dispensers on the fucking wall while I'm taking a shit?

woman were designed to take care of kids and serve man, the natural order of shit has been fucked up by the unrelenting bitching of women everywhere.

how do you think that any thing in today's society can be right when everything is all fucked around, no fucking supper made when the man comes home, no fucking milk and cookies for the kids when they come home from school, shit they are lucky if they get a frickin TV dinner, here johnny go play this fucking video game and leave mommy alone she don't have time for your sorry ass.

sperm donor? funny you should bring that shit up, tell you what go and sit in on a few divorce proceedings , that is exactly how men are treated when it comes to parental rights.

burn your bra, do the fucking world a favor and leave it one and burn it OK?

I hope this is clear enough for you to understand???

He is right people. One hundred percent right. I don't care what any of you say. It is those fucking women's lib 1970's women that FUCKED everything up with their bullshit. It does not take a rocket scientist to figure it out.
Just fucking look around you. That is when this shit started. My mother generation. I think they should all be required to fucking fix it now.

[Duchess]

It's all George Bush's fault.

[username]

sperm donor? funny you should bring that shit up, tell you what go and sit in on a few divorce proceedings , that is exactly how men are treated when it comes to parental rights.

You're making a great case for why it's the "natural order of things" for men to be treated like sperm donors in divorce court. Men clearly aren't capable or born to take care of children--it's probably a mistake to give them anything more than the occassional visit with their kids. Supervised by the mom, of course.

[Greeneyesofblue]

The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure thus we deal with their fucked up kids . . .

Just to make sure I understand your position, "The simple fact that women pressed to be equal in the work force points to a dramatic and significant change in the family structure . . . " and not because we are greedy fucks and thus, adopted the "Two Paycheck" household mentality?

"WE" of course being both men and women.

It's called the equal right amendment, do your own fucking homework you lazy bitch.

women pressed for minority status, they wanted out of the apron and on to the casting couch, it still goes on today with equal pay for semi equal work.

check out the uni sex bathrooms, why the fuck do I have to see fucking tampon dispensers on the fucking wall while I'm taking a shit?

woman were designed to take care of kids and serve man, the natural order of shit has been fucked up by the unrelenting bitching of women everywhere.

how do you think that any thing in today's society can be right when everything is all fucked around, no fucking supper made when the man comes home, no fucking milk and cookies for the kids when they come home from school, shit they are lucky if they get a frickin TV dinner, here johnny go play this fucking video game and leave mommy alone she don't have time for your sorry ass.

sperm donor? funny you should bring that shit up, tell you what go and sit in on a few divorce proceedings , that is exactly how men are treated when it comes to parental rights.

burn your bra, do the fucking world a favor and leave it one and burn it OK?

I hope this is clear enough for you to understand???

You are so right. I agree with you.

My husband is the King of our castle. He is treated like a King, with love and respect and in return he treat me like a Queen.

He goes out and slays dragons for this family every single day. You can bet your ass he has a hot meal to come home to every single night.

Taking care of my family is the most important job in the world. My kids are happy and they have fucking milk and cookies everyday after school.

I know where they are at all times. They are not being raised in a daycare. They get good grades, are responsible, they volunteer, are respectful and nice kids anyone would enjoy being around.

I don't give a damn if you think it is old fashioned. I am the luckiest girl in the world. I am madly in love with my husband and will continue to serve him and cater to him as long as he continues to treat me like the most beautiful and desirable woman in the world. I am lucky. We both are. I make sure he knows every single day how much I appreciate him and he does the same.

It is the way god meant it to be. Bottom line. Not to mention, it works.

[sally]

no fucking supper made when the man comes home

The deadbeat father would actually need to come home for that. Maybe he could disipline the little fucks if he wasn't at the bar.