NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS ~

[Clang McFly]

That is true.

Clang work on liking yourself.
Changing things, outside things won't change you, but it could make you feel more confident.

 

Thanks, Mirah. I do like myself sometimes...like in my avatar picture. It helps to like myself when I'm not a tightly wound ball of anxiety who sweats the small stuff, which is 90% of the time.

[rothschild]

I have a friend who has made it his mission in 2022 to help me lose weight, dress better, be more confident and manly,and finally get laid. I wonder if I should I tell him most of that is impossible and the rest doomed to failure because I'm a part time crossdresser.

Have you ever thought of becoming a Catholic priest?

Tried that. Didn't work out for this socially awkward introvert. Plus imagine the scandal of a crossdressing priest.

There wouldn't be the tiniest iota of scandal in it, given the state of the world. There's an awful lot of Clang's in this world, with loneliness that needs ministering. But you'd have to start with yourself, and here's the big secret, in case you have a change of heart and decide to conquer your demons: the hardest part is getting started, because you don't think it's possible. Once you get going, you slowly start to realize that it IS possible. Which brings us to another big secret: it's a marathon, not a sprint, and you win not by finishing, but by living it, one minute at a time.

[Clang McFly]

I have a friend who has made it his mission in 2022 to help me lose weight, dress better, be more confident and manly,and finally get laid. I wonder if I should I tell him most of that is impossible and the rest doomed to failure because I'm a part time crossdresser.

Have you ever thought of becoming a Catholic priest?

Tried that. Didn't work out for this socially awkward introvert. Plus imagine the scandal of a crossdressing priest.

There wouldn't be the tiniest iota of scandal in it, given the state of the world. There's an awful lot of Clang's in this world, with loneliness that needs ministering. But you'd have to start with yourself, and here's the big secret, in case you have a change of heart and decide to conquer your demons: the hardest part is getting started, because you don't think it's possible. Once you get going, you slowly start to realize that it IS possible. Which brings us to another big secret: it's a marathon, not a sprint, and you win not by finishing, but by living it, one minute at a time.

[sally]

You have your very own life guru, Clang.

[Maggot]

I want to be the guy that puts the coat on James Brown when Jesus comes back and the dead rise. Just wanna be first in line.

[MirahM]

Am I supposed to bump these old threads instead of making a new one? : (

Nope, you're welcome to start your own thread. I'm not fussy about that kind of thing and will encourage you to do what you want.

COOL THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!