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Would you dismiss good looks in favor of a good heart?
When I was younger, hell yeah. I was a very shallow young person. If he wasn't good looking I wasn't dating him, no fuckin' way. I was a cheerleader, I HAD to have a hot boyfriend. With age comes wisdom, I've since learned what is important. While being good looking is still important it no longer tops the list.
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Oops! I worded that wrong. Ima dumbass. Jesus.
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I would really like to reply to this.
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Well...comment! Holy shit, Dick. If I cared about the opinion of others I sure as hell wouldn't be hanging out here. Knock yourself out.
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(01-23-2011, 08:43 AM)Duchess Wrote:
Well...comment! Holy shit, Dick. If I cared about the opinion of others I sure as hell wouldn't be hanging out here. Knock yourself out.
shave your eyebrows and I will.
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I get 'em waxed, babe.
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The guy doesn't have to be a model, but I would still need to be physically attracted to him no matter how good of a heart he had.
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Nope..not looks. I mean, I am no prize, so for me to demand good looks (or at least what society considers good looks) it would be silly.
Rick is far from what the mainstream views as great looking..though I find him really handsome, to me. He is a big guy, and that is a turn off for some I am sure.
But ya know, at the end of the day, he can put up with me and some of the bullshut I can dump on him, so he is a keeper.
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I was a major idiot when I was younger. On the plus side I was far more concerned about character and a pleasant attitude than about looks but on the minus side I wanted a girl friend to be extremely healthy and with a nice figure. I was worse than Jerry Seinfeld with excluding women because they fell a little short of perfection or were nearly perfect but overweigt or with some "flaw". "Man hands" indeed.
Of course it had to be a woman who wasn't too concerned with material things but it wasn't hard to exclude them since I looked even poorer than I was really was. Unsurprisingly I spent much of my youth without a girl friend.
But missed opportunities is mostly what my life is about so it should be no different in this.
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(01-23-2011, 08:19 AM)Duchess Wrote: [size=medium][i]
Would you dismiss good looks in favor of a good heart?
It depends on the "looks". I'm sure there are obese people that are truly kind but to me, obesity is a sign of weakness. That's the part I couldn't get over. I don't need model good looks but if someone is slovenly...that's a deal breaker. I want to be with a guy that has enough self-esteem to be healthy and fit but he should also be a guy's guy. If he spends more time in front of the mirror than me, he's out. No metro-sexuals for me.
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Duchess has man hands and she is attractive. LOL
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I do not have man's hands goddamnit.
I feel like I'm a fuckin' episode of Seinfield for christssake.
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hahahaaa ok Duchess. Whatever you say.
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(01-26-2011, 12:55 PM)ramseycat Wrote: Duchess has man hands and she is attractive. LOL
Hey Ramsey, post the picture again of Duchess, you back bitting bitch.
Fucking 2 faced people piss me off.
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Are you calling me two faced? Why?
I don't think I have the picture anymore. It was sent to me by someone no longer here.
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(01-26-2011, 01:06 PM)ramseycat Wrote: Are you calling me two faced? Why?
I don't think I have the picture anymore. It was sent to me by someone no longer here.
Do you want me to go dig it up where you posted it at?
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Sure go ahead.
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Nice mani!
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