The reason I am so pissy

[ramseycat]

Ramsey get him out of their life. He is better off not being in their lives than doing that shit. It will mess them up. You step up and be both parents. You can do it.

She didn't say he was abusing them, he just didn't send Christmas money. I think it's a bit rash to tell her to keep her kids away from their father who is probally otherwise a loving dad. I'd let the kids decide if they want to see him or not. I would never keep my kids from seeing their dad over some stupid bullshit like that, your advice sucks.

He is very emotionally abusive to them. They have decided on their own not so see them. I try very hard to keep my personal feelings to myself and not influence them.

[Duchess]

I would turn down the invitation to anyones house where I couldn't be myself, I don't believe in putting on aires.

people who want phony people around them are fucking stupid.

Jesus Christ...where do you get this shit?

[ramseycat]

Ramsey get him out of their life. He is better off not being in their lives than doing that shit. It will mess them up. You step up and be both parents. You can do it.

She didn't say he was abusing them, he just didn't send Christmas money. I think it's a bit rash to tell her to keep her kids away from their father who is probally otherwise a loving dad. I'd let the kids decide if they want to see him or not. I would never keep my kids from seeing their dad over some stupid bullshit like that, your advice sucks.

Ramsey said the guy finally showed up after 3 years. Unless she's lying, that sounds like a pretty shitty dad to me. I think YOUR advice sucks.

No the ex didn't show up after three years. My oldest son stopped seeing him three years ago due to a lot of stuff I won't get into. My son finally agreed to see him. He just wants a father. And what does my ex do? He fucks it up is what. It's a long story and I am not going to get into it.

[IMaDick]

He's a mean & hateful man. He needs to get laid in the worst way...

...not to mention how uptight he is. He takes buzzkill to a whole new level.

This coming from you just tears me up inside.

[Smegma]

Ramsey, you don't need to explain anything to us, particularly not to Dick. He'll never understand what you're saying anyway, he's got a preconceived notion that it's always the woman's fault.

[IMaDick]

I would turn down the invitation to anyones house where I couldn't be myself, I don't believe in putting on aires.

people who want phony people around them are fucking stupid.

Jesus Christ...where do you get this shit?

You said you would be there also, that didn't leave much room for the kind of phony assholes that would also be there.

[ramseycat]

Giving a kid a miserable Christmas card and nothing else is the equivalent of tipping your waitress 25 cents. It's insulting. If he was afraid of Ramsey keeping the kids' money (only an asshole like Dick would think of that one) then he could get off his lazy ass and pick up a video game or something. There was no excuse for this.

I would bet this poor fucker has been called every name in the book, that she has told him what to buy the kids, that she has either not given them what he has given to them or taken them back to the store and either returned them or exchanged them, and that she has gone out of her way to fuck him up every chance she has gotten.

and your trying to equate what I would think of when it come to women who can't get over a divorce that she initiated to being an asshole is not only silly but just goes to show you how right i am.

If she wanted shut of him then she should stop meddling in his life leave him alone and stop trying to ruin him at every turn.

YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE! I have never taken anything from my kids. I have bent over backwards to be accomodating to him. Changing my schedule so he could see the kids whenever he wanted. Do you know how many times he called at the last minute on his days or weekends and said he can't take the kids because of some stupid excuse??? I do not trash talk my ex to my kids either. but he had done it plenty. Dick you have no fucking idea what the real situation is and how many times he has been reported to CPS for his drinking. His own family won't have anything to do with him. What does that tell you? Stop taking the man's side because you fot fucked by your ex. Don't assume all women are like her. Oh and the ex-hole emptied my son's savings account without my knowledge or my son's knowledge to put it in a 529 college fund. Nice huh? He gets the tax break and my son gets screwed. It wasn't the exholes money to take.

[ramseycat]

This guy had money to travel, money to gamble, money to keep himself in booze and money to buy nine dollar a pack cigarettes yet he couldn't give his kids a few bucks in a card. I'm pretty sure that was Ramsey's whole point, he had money to gratify himself but there was nothing for his children. He's a selfish fuck. A good parent puts their children first, he doesn't.

Dick as usual misses the whole point and turns it into, "you couldn't stand to see the things I've seen". Who gives a fuck, you obnoxious twat.

Thank you Duchess. You totally nailed it. Dick on the other hand turned it into a I am a heartess bitch trying to ruin my ex when the truth is I couldn't care less about him. It's my sons that I care about.

[ramseycat]

Dick, I seriously hope you are just being a dick because this is Mock and you are not really this much of an asshole.

[Cracker]

What the fuck is wrong with you posting this shit? I bet you posted it at work.

The rest of you are idiots for replying to a middle aged woman's domestic drama. I'm not going to read it so I can retain a little respect for you folks, but honestly, she's fucking grown and has kids. You know she bitched to anyone/everyone who would listen to her already, so you people are third-hand douchebags for even reading it.

No wonder reality TV is popular.

I hear "divorce" or "baby daddy" and I walk the other way.

[ramseycat]

Well good for you Cracker, you holier than thou judgemental bitch. Good for you.

[Duchess]

you people are third-hand douchebags for even reading it.

[Cracker]

Well good for you Cracker, you holier than thou judgemental bitch. Good for you.

I AM holier than thou. You won't see me posting this shit. I'm grown and my kids are healthy and happy because I wasn't a dramatic bitch.

We had a lovely Christmas.

Be careful posting about your ex not getting visitation even though he does pay child support. You could end up in the pokey. That is contempt of a court order. So keep posting your idiotic drama like this is Facebook.

Everybody else, keep arguing about someone else's custody/money drama.

(Is elss's correct? I somehow don't think so.)

[sally]

I hear "divorce" or "baby daddy" and I walk the other way.

Normally I do too, but if you want to start a fight then it's good to at least skim.

And fuck you for calling me a douchebag.

[Cracker]

you people are third-hand douchebags for even reading it.

I bet this isn't the first thread about her drama in Mock.

Am I right?

Did you solve her problems last time? No? Because they are HER problems? hahahahahaha

[Duchess]

I fully support arguing over bullshit. This is a hot thread & already into it's sixth page. Thanks!

Carry on...

[Cracker]

I hear "divorce" or "baby daddy" and I walk the other way.

Normally I do too, but if you want to start a fight then it's good to at least skim.

And fuck you for calling me a douchebag.

It was a friendly slap in the face, "SNAP OUT OF IT!", kind of thing.

I can't bring myself to read the thread. I read a little on the first page.

My thought: She had a choice. When a card shows up, you could say, "What a pretty card. Your dad is thinking about you!" or you could be a cunt and say, "WHERE IS THE MONEY? CARDS ARE FOR MONEY! WHAT A SELFISH BASTARD! HE BOUGHT HIMSELF FOOD AND GAS AND CLOTHING AND TOOK A VACATION, WHERE IS YOUR MONEY????"

[sally]

I made a drama thread once. Here it is...

http://mockforums.net/thread-3848.html?h...talking+me

[Cracker]

I fully support arguing over bullshit. This is a hot thread & already into it's sixth page. Thanks!

Carry on...

There are a bunch like this, I'm sure:

Men are dumb. Example: My ex picked up my son from my mother's yesterday. The kids had a snow day. I called him at 3:50 and say I am leaving the office at 4pm and I will come by and get Z. He says no, you can pick him up later. I said no it's now or you can drop him off later. He hangs up. So I swing by on my way home and he tells me to leave. Fine. At 7:30 Z calls and wants me to pick him up. I said no. Your father can bring you home. He ended up staying over and the ex-hole brought him to my mom's this morning. Then Z tells me he was at the exes GF's house and they were on their way back to the exes when the ex calls the GF and tells her to drive around until I leave. WTF?? He never told me that Z was not there. Why the GF couldn't drop Z off as I was there to pick him up is beyond me. All that unnecessary drama for nothing.

And another entire thread from two years ago:
http://mockforums.net/thread-1401.html

Yeah, Mock maybe isn't the place to get psychological help.

[Duchess]

Yeah, Mock maybe isn't the place to get psychological help.

Hahaha! Seriously?

My feelings about Ramsey bitching about her ex-hole are much the same as they are when you bitch about blacks & stupid people, I'm glad I can give you both a platform.