09-17-2014, 09:41 AM
No. I would not date someone of my gender or that started my gender. If I found out my SO was lying to me about it the whole time, it'd be over.
Yes... it would prove them right that if I'd known the truth I would have left... however, that doesn't /make/ them right for lying about it. That's like a first date kind of detail you share with someone. If the other person isn't comfortable with it, better to end it before it starts. If you're just hiding your gender from someone you're dating/married... then you're basically a homosexual masquerading as a heterosexual (or vice versa I guess). If you got a sex change op, you're going to go from 'lying to the world' about feeling like the opposite gender to lying to your spouse about having started out the opposite gender? It's supposed to be about finally feeling confident in your gender/sexuality. Confidence means not hiding things. Deception isn't a basis for love.
My cousin was born a girl and is now a dude. It's tough for me to even deal with him. I try to be very accepting of sexuality... but gender is something I feel like you just get assigned at birth. Just because someone doesn't like their gender they get to switch? How bout I don't like being a white person. Can I walk around with blackface on all the time and pretend I'm black?
Yes... it would prove them right that if I'd known the truth I would have left... however, that doesn't /make/ them right for lying about it. That's like a first date kind of detail you share with someone. If the other person isn't comfortable with it, better to end it before it starts. If you're just hiding your gender from someone you're dating/married... then you're basically a homosexual masquerading as a heterosexual (or vice versa I guess). If you got a sex change op, you're going to go from 'lying to the world' about feeling like the opposite gender to lying to your spouse about having started out the opposite gender? It's supposed to be about finally feeling confident in your gender/sexuality. Confidence means not hiding things. Deception isn't a basis for love.
My cousin was born a girl and is now a dude. It's tough for me to even deal with him. I try to be very accepting of sexuality... but gender is something I feel like you just get assigned at birth. Just because someone doesn't like their gender they get to switch? How bout I don't like being a white person. Can I walk around with blackface on all the time and pretend I'm black?