(12-27-2011, 10:38 PM)IMaDick Wrote: If she wanted shut of him then she should stop meddling in his life leave him alone and stop trying to ruin him at every turn.

This reminded me of my son's situation. OMG. nice kid, quiet, played soccer, not brad pitt but a cute kid, nver gave us any significant trouble other than a smart ass once in a while...is 30 yrs, goes downtown and meets a pretty blond that my daughters (who were meeting him at the same bar) told me she was making out with 2 guys before he walked in. one of them saw her snorting cocaine in the bathrm.

no shit. 8 wks later they are married. 2 months after that, she is pregnant. i could write a book. is he a total dumbass for picking his wife with his penis, yes, but you have no idea what this poos guy faces:

has to pay her alimony for 6 years (yes she didn't work. she presented herself as a loaded Manhattan born and raised debutonte classy/...that turned out to be true and during their upcoming divorce daddy's guns are now pointed agst him.

he took her and baby to europe on business and walked out in hall w the baby and she was making out with some dude.

he'd come home from work and baby be screaming while she still sleeping from drinking wine/pot all day.

he is so screwed you wouldn't believe what they are asking for. her parents found a sucker to have her set up forever.

RamseyCat, I am sorry that happened. If there is anythingthing you can do to have his boys have a relationship with him after assessing he has some redeemable qualities, ya need to do it. you are right to think he was a total asshole. I would try to tell him that sucked, that you put $20 in the cards so it wouldn't break you boys hearts, etc. and try to cultivate a relationship with his sons. no ones perfect, could you give him another chance?

You STILL don't have a clue. Hahaha!

Dumbass.

Oops. Fucking hell. Failure to quote Dick's dumb ass.

(12-27-2011, 11:22 PM)IMaDick Wrote:

(12-27-2011, 11:09 PM)Midwest Spy Wrote:

(12-27-2011, 09:56 PM)sally Wrote: That wasn't advice, numbnuts.

I love using that word, especially in reference to one of Senor Ricardo's idiotic statements.

Says the numbnuts.

Im a legend I have seen stuff that others can only have nightmares about.

Have you ever served a move out order on some poor bastard who just got home from work after having deposited his check into the joint checking account just to find out she was there to close the account 15 minutes later while he was getting his ass tossed out on the street?

If you haven't stay on the sidelines, I have seen the nastyness of the greedy bitches who end up with the kids because they have a snatch no other reason, I have seen the kids given to these slovenly bitches who have no means of support and then chase the poor fucking man around for the next 15 or 16 years to get the money to support those kids he could support without any state help.

when this shit gets fair to men then maybe just maybe I might have a slightly different opinion.

For every controlling asshole father/husb out there, there is a manipulative, bitch mother/wife out there. Assholes on both sides. I have no doubt RamseyCat is an awesome mom but if at all possible, they need to think/feel their dads care about them. I trust your judgement completely whether it is good or not good to have him in their life.

(12-28-2011, 07:48 AM)aussiefriend Wrote:

(12-28-2011, 06:02 AM)Duchess Wrote:

Dick as usual misses the whole point and turns it into, "you couldn't stand to see the things I've seen". Who gives a fuck, you obnoxious twat.

Dick thought it was all about him...again. I love it.

Aussie you have a kid with no daddy don't you? it's obvious that life has screwed you more than you have screwed the pooch.

Bwahahaha! It bugs Dick that we are laughing at him, Aussie. *snicker*

(12-28-2011, 08:04 AM)Duchess Wrote:

Bwahahaha! It bugs Dick that we are laughing at him, Aussie. *snicker*

It bugs dick that you are so fucking slow.

Why does Dick always think he knows all the answers but gets it so very very wrong? Another forum: I was complaining about a co-worker that either slept, shopped the classified ads online or slipped out early popping up and taking credit for our work and shmoozing the boss saying how he's taking care of everything because the flighty women couldn't handle it. Dick comes into the thread and basically calls me a lazy bitch and that he'd be thrilled to have a 'go-getter' like that guy work for him.

Seriously, what the fuck?

(12-28-2011, 08:05 AM)IMaDick Wrote: It bugs dick that you are so fucking slow.

There's actually some truth to that this morning. I'm in slo mo. I don't feel good and I have to go out into the real world. Ugh.

(12-28-2011, 06:02 AM)Duchess Wrote:

This guy had money to travel, money to gamble, money to keep himself in booze and money to buy nine dollar a pack cigarettes yet he couldn't give his kids a few bucks in a card. I'm pretty sure that was Ramsey's whole point, he had money to gratify himself but there was nothing for his children. He's a selfish fuck. A good parent puts their children first, he doesn't.

Dick as usual misses the whole point and turns it into, "you couldn't stand to see the things I've seen". Who gives a fuck, you obnoxious twat.

So you think because this guy was married to some twat he should never have a life of his own again?

now that's funny.

(12-28-2011, 08:08 AM)Smegma Wrote: Why does Dick always think he knows all the answers but gets it so very very wrong? Another forum: I was complaining about a co-worker that either slept, shopped the classified ads online or slipped out early popping up and taking credit for our work and shmoozing the boss saying how he's taking care of everything because the flighty women couldn't handle it. Dick comes into the thread and basically calls me a lazy bitch and that he'd be thrilled to have a 'go-getter' like that guy work for him.

Seriously, what the fuck?

because I see you as a lazy bitch who thinks having saggy titties and nose hair makes you special somehow.

(12-28-2011, 08:08 AM)IMaDick Wrote: So you think because this guy was married to some twat he should never have a life of his own again?

now that's funny.

Seriously..you are a fucking retard. How the hell have you reached that conclusion based on what I posted. Dick, you're dumb. I am laughing at you & your dumbass comments. You have NO comprehension skills...whatsoever. Jesus Christ.

(12-28-2011, 08:10 AM)IMaDick Wrote: because I see you as a lazy bitch who thinks having saggy titties and nose hair makes you special somehow.

She's way better looking than your wife so unless you want the red headed bitch slammed you need to shut the fuck up. Moron.

Beauty is skin deep ugly goes all the way through.

My wife is a beauty do you think that you could actually slam her in my eyes? That just shows how shallow you actually are.

(12-28-2011, 08:30 AM)IMaDick Wrote: That just shows how shallow you actually are.

I've confessed to being shallow many times in here. I'm selfish & a snob too. So what? *shrugs*

Your wife is quite probably a lovely woman who deserves sainthood or the dumbest bitch to ever walk the earth. I couldn't put up with you as a life partner because I think you're an obnoxious twat and no one would ever invite us to their house parties because of that.

(12-28-2011, 08:04 AM)Duchess Wrote:

Bwahahaha! It bugs Dick that we are laughing at him, Aussie. *snicker*

I was going to respond to his remark and then I thought nah.

He needs to bend over and take it like a man.

He's a mean & hateful man. He needs to get laid in the worst way...

...not to mention how uptight he is. He takes buzzkill to a whole new level.

I guess he went away mad. *sigh*

(12-27-2011, 08:19 PM)IMaDick Wrote: You "turned him in" was the defining statement.

HE is saying I turned him in. And if I did so what? I work my ass off to support our children. He gets fired last February and has not gotten another job. I have heard through the insurance grapevine that he got fired for drinking during work hours. He took a new job and was working from home. Bad idea for an alcoholic. People he spoke with on the phone noticed he sounded "off" more than once. The director fired him on his 60^th day for not following procedure. He had no idea it was coming. No one ever said anything to him that his work was incorrect. He is a systems analyst building product codes and stuff like that for health insurance. Dick, there is a long long history here. We have been divorced for 8 ¹⁄₂ years. I have never asked for an increase in support even though I know he was making a lot more money than when we split. I paid for all sports, instrument rentals, every single extra thing for these kids. He never paid one cent over his CS. He never came to one baseball game, basketball game, and maybe 2 football games. Never came to a school open house or parent confernece. No school plays or activities. He showed up to my oldest son's 8^th grade graduation drunk and his own father had to take him home because he was causing a scene. He is a loser. And you want to judge me??? His ass shouldn't be collecting UE while on vacation. Bottom line is I don't give a shit what he does as long as he pays his fair share to support his kids. He can go live on a tropical island and drink ²⁴⁄₇ - just take care of your kids.

(12-28-2011, 08:35 AM)Duchess Wrote:

(12-28-2011, 08:30 AM)IMaDick Wrote: That just shows how shallow you actually are.

I've confessed to being shallow many times in here. I'm selfish & a snob too. So what? *shrugs*

Your wife is quite probably a lovely woman who deserves sainthood or the dumbest bitch to ever walk the earth. I couldn't put up with you as a life partner because I think you're an obnoxious twat and no one would ever invite us to their house parties because of that.

I would turn down the invitation to anyones house where I couldn't be myself, I don't believe in putting on aires.

people who want phony people around them are fucking stupid.