(04-05-2012, 05:17 PM)Midwest Spy Wrote: And, with your second paragraph, you've got a pretty good point.

I can work the mower and pressure washer, hook up my own electronics, pay for all my own stuff, and get dinner and sex when I want. I really don't see the point of having one around all the time.

Plus, men are kinda babies. And they want to tell you what they dreamed the night before. Like I give a shit.

(04-05-2012, 05:36 PM)Cracker Wrote: they want to tell you what they dreamed the night before. Like I give a shit.

Oops... you ladies don't care for that?

(04-05-2012, 04:31 PM)username Wrote:

(04-05-2012, 03:41 PM)ramseycat Wrote: You being here is offensive Crackass.

Ramsey, you should STFU. You should thank her. From what I've seen, she's been ignoring you while you hump her leg all over the damn forum.

Sheesh.

If she is ignoring me it's because she doesn't like it when someone stands up to her bullshit. She only likes to attack people she thinks are weaker than her. Besides, I only hump Maggot's leg.

(04-05-2012, 05:14 PM)Midwest Spy Wrote:

(04-05-2012, 04:57 PM)FAHQTOO Wrote: So, you get men who want to have it NOW.


So what you're saying is that you're soooo fucking desparate, and have no self control...therefore, you admit to the whole world you pay nasty, dirty whores to get laid.

We've probably all seen you on COPS.

I'm sure you're addressing that to Cars, right?

I see a lot of Bitter Betty going on in your posts directed towards me.

Any guess as to why it's called the 'world's oldest profession'?

There are some seriously ugly men in this world. How are they supposed to get laid, without raping somebody? Help me, please.

And to answer your question, yes, I was arrested in Season 3, Fort Worth, TX. Look it up.

Reply was direct response as to probable "why", asked by Duchess.
Fortunately never had to pay, here.
COPS also shows car chases as well!

The only thing more boring than people telling you about their dreams are people telling you about their golfing anecdotes.

Some people want to tell you their every waking thought and every dream. That is beyond me. I don't find most people that interesting. If I hear, "I had this dream..." I silently check out.

I keep my stuff in the vault most of the time, unless it is going to make my head explode. Then I will tell one person, just to get it out of my head and give it more space. I usually end up wishing I would have kept it to myself. Your thoughts are the only thing people can't take from you. I don't want them to dissipate.

(04-06-2012, 09:44 AM)Cracker Wrote: I keep my stuff in the vault most of the time

I do too. I cannot imagine sharing my personal bullshit with ANYONE who didn't love me. That is just not happening. I don't even like those who actually know me to know too much about my life, my issues with personal privacy border on the absurd.

I was reading some highly personal stuff yesterday. One Mocker was giving someone hell about something that happened. The offended party was pulling every pity card in the book. I couldn't help but think maybe you shouldn't post shit like that on the Internet if you aren't ready to hear every opinion out there.

We don't all see things the same way. Stupid people can't think beyond their own realm and have no idea how others see them. Some people aren't sheep and they will cut you from the herd and single you out as the dumbass if you let them.

It isn't hate. It is a kind of astonishment that grown people can live all those years and still be so fucking stupid.

(04-05-2012, 05:36 PM)Cracker Wrote: Plus, men are kinda babies. And they want to tell you what they dreamed the night before. Like I give a shit.

Might be worth a listen if the dream was about you.

(04-06-2012, 10:16 AM)ZEROSPHERES Wrote: Might be worth a listen if the dream was about you.

Nah. It's always some variation on shit I've heard before. We all measure people against other people we know/have known.

The real secret is what they are going to do next. Once you get a certain age, that becomes less of a mystery as well.

IRL aside from four deeply loved and trusted people with whom I sometimes share personal thoughts and feelings, my privacy "wall" (as it's been referred to by others) is quite solid. I've had more than a couple of developing relationships where the person wanted to spill all of their personal stuff all at once or in stages. I really don't mind listening to anyone that I like enough to be engaging with in the first place. No problem.

Sometimes the other person then automatically expects me to share all of my personal stuff in return, and he/she gets disappointed when that doesn't happen. I'll share some things, other things just don't belong outside of my heart and head and that's where they'll stay. If the other person accepts that when it's explained, the relationship continues with differences respected. If they keep pushing to climb over the wall as if keeping some things private is an "issue" (and usually after some attempt to guilt trip the fuck outta me), I just move along.

On the internet, all kinds of people sharing all kinds of deeply personal shit (some fact, some fiction), probably for all kinds of reasons. Read it or not, comment or not, scroll right past it... No real disappointment and no guilt trips (except for the rare virtual asshole who expects too much and can't respect boundaries). Perfect.

When one trusts someone (online) with their PI, whatever that may entail, and at some point it's put out there, who is to blame, the person who did the betraying or the person who trusted an asshole?

I know people who can't keep a fucking secret, I use them if I want to make sure what I say gets spread around.

Telephone,telegraph tell Gil&*^%

(04-06-2012, 11:02 AM)Duchess Wrote:

When one trusts someone (online) with their PI, whatever that may entail, and at some point it's put out there, who is to blame, the person who did the betraying or the person who trusted an asshole?

Not that much different than real life, really. You take your chances either way.

I'd rather spit some stuff out virtually than IRL. People always want to hover or ask shit to your face that you can't say yet or that is none of their fucking business. Or worse, they try to hug you. God that makes me want to punch them in the gut.

Plus, if you are strong enough, you get the rare opportunity to hear what people are really thinking. Stuff nobody would say to your face...

People don't talk shit to me IRL often. At least here people give it a shot.

(04-06-2012, 11:07 AM)IMaDick Wrote: Gil&*^%

Gillian? Gilbert?

I know people who can't keep a fucking secret, I use them if I want to make sure what I say gets spread around.

Telephone,telegraph tell Gil&*^%






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I do that all the time, sometimes just to test the trust level that I award them.

(04-06-2012, 11:14 AM)Maggot Wrote: I do that all the time, sometimes just to test the trust level that I award them.

I've done that.

(04-06-2012, 11:14 AM)Maggot Wrote: I do that all the time, sometimes just to test the trust level that I award them.

You are a man-woman.

(04-06-2012, 11:18 AM)Cracker Wrote:

(04-06-2012, 11:14 AM)Maggot Wrote: I do that all the time, sometimes just to test the trust level that I award them.

You are a man-woman.

I am the POWWA!!!!!!!

I've been very lucky in the few that I have trusted online. I have serious trust issues & it takes me a long time to get to a point where I'm willing to share anything personal but when I've taken a leap of faith I have been rewarded. There are a few that know me a little and then there are those that THINK they know but when they've spilled their guts it was very satisfying to see it had all been pulled out of their ass.

(04-06-2012, 11:22 AM)Maggot Wrote: I am the POWWA!!!!!!!

Yes, honey, I hear you roar.