(09-02-2015, 08:28 PM)Ski at 1SKY6 Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 07:59 PM)sally Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 07:09 PM)Ski at 1SKY6 Wrote: I can't relate to that. I told my family when I was 15, but come to think of it, after my experience, his hiding may have been the best way for him to deal with it.

I like gay people just as much as I like anyone else and if one of my kids were gay I'd accept it and be ok with it, but I'd still prefer them not to be. My sister is gay and it makes me uncomfortable watching her and her girlfriend being affectionate so I know it would be even weirder if it was my kid. I don't know why it makes me uncomfortable, it just does.

They made me watch the L Word one day which is a lesbian show and after about 15 minutes into it I told them I'm outta here, you guys watch this crap on your own .

I would not have handled seeing either of my parents being sexually intimate with their own gender. How could I have expected them to accept me? The fact is I didn't. I told them fully expecting them to smile and say, Don't worry every one starts out in puberty attracted to their own gender and just like a catapillar metamorphoses into a butterfly, all sexuality goes from homosexual to heterosexual as puberty progresses. Instead they shipped me out to an institution where for three months I received a total of 35 electroshock treatments in order to correct this devientcy. I accepted since I didn't want to be gay any more than they wanted me gay. When it proved a failure and I was still gay is when the real trouble for me began. They figured I just wanted to be queer and they wanted nothing to do with me. I struggled for years getting past the banishment and trying to appreciate their position.


My sister is the only person who stood up to them and cursed them for what they were doing.

But that was 50 years ago. Much has changed.

Holy hell. Part of me understands that attitudes/beliefs were completely different 50 years ago but looking at it from the perspective of what we know today, that's terribly abusive and ignorant. Do they regret now what they did to you then?

(09-02-2015, 08:42 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 06:09 PM)Blindgreed1 Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 06:00 PM)sally Wrote: Even though Clang crossdresses and has admitted to being bi-curious he doesn't seem to have strong homosexual tendencies like MS. He's like a weird cross between Marv Albert, Fat Albert and Norm from Cheers. I can't picture Clang being straight up gay.

Also... Consider this. Freddy Mercury didn't know he was gay for most of his life, so never say never. Bi-curious can be just another way of saying gay isn't off the table.

It's off the table. I think I just feel cheated since I didn't do any "experimenting". Aww heck...what am I saying? Marry me, ya big gay bastard!

I'm straight bro, but thanks for the flattering offer.

(09-03-2015, 10:44 AM)Blindgreed1 Wrote: I'm straight bro, but thanks for the flattering offer.

You just haven't completed your metamorphosis yet there, butterfly.

(09-03-2015, 11:21 AM)Jimbone Wrote:

(09-03-2015, 10:44 AM)Blindgreed1 Wrote: I'm straight bro, but thanks for the flattering offer.

You just haven't completed your metamorphosis yet there, butterfly.

Jeeesssusssss...

(09-03-2015, 11:21 AM)Jimbone Wrote:

(09-03-2015, 10:44 AM)Blindgreed1 Wrote: I'm straight bro, but thanks for the flattering offer.

You just haven't completed your metamorphosis yet there, butterfly.

I'm actually very comfortable with the fact that I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

I used to think that any man who wasn't attracted to me was gay.

Then I discovered the ones who were attracted to me . . . are gay.

Must be the Vera B bags.

(09-02-2015, 11:15 PM)username Wrote: Holy hell. Part of me understands that attitudes/beliefs were completely different 50 years ago but looking at it from the perspective of what we know today, that's terribly abusive and ignorant. Do they regret now what they did to you then?

It remained the invisable elephant in the room. They divorced and my father married a woman who gave him the son he never had. My mother never gave up her expectation that this demon could be excised from my being. They remained their entire lives with the established beliefs of their early upbringing that homosexuality is a sin condemned by god and a sickness according to the mental health industry. They were compassionate when I consented to the cure but later blamed me for that cure not working. I in turn felt I had let them down and a contrite apologetic posture was expected from then forward. They had no reason to feel badly since I was perceived as the guilty party and they had tried to save me from eternal damnation and the flaw in me that would overshadow any success achieved in my life.

Sky . . . I'm getting the vibe you will be forced to be Mock's Dan Savage.

Truly . . . and I mean truly, you have a lot to offer.

Instead of Savage's "Hey, Faggot" salutation ( I'm sorry he felt pressured to eventually drop), maybe questions directed to you should star with "Hey, Handsome", " Hey, Sweetness" or "Hey, You".

I do hope you will start a thread for all the homophobic, sexually confused males, of Mock, to seek your advice and counsel.

So many need your guidance.

And I hope you will demand a greeting, from such seekers, on par with Savage's former salutation.

You know . . . something a tad off color, yet appropriate.

Smooches!

(09-03-2015, 05:27 PM)BlueTiki Wrote: Sky . . . I'm getting the vibe you will be forced to be Mock's Dan Savage.

Truly . . . and I mean truly, you have a lot to offer.

Instead of Savage's "Hey, Faggot" salutation ( I'm sorry he felt pressured to eventually drop), maybe questions directed to you should star with "Hey, Handsome", " Hey, Sweetness" or "Hey, You".

I do hope you will start a thread for all the homophobic, sexually confused males, of Mock, to seek your advice and counsel.

So many need your guidance.

And I hope you will demand a greeting, from such seekers, on par with Savage's former salutation.

You know . . . something a tad off color, yet appropriate.

Smooches!

I was thinking about: "What's up Sky? Suck any good dick lately?" but I hadn't determined yet if he's too sensitive for a greeting like that? Sky? What say ye?

I think Ski is around 65, I don't think he's having any sex. Doesn't sex stop by that time?

(09-03-2015, 05:27 PM)BlueTiki Wrote: Sky . . . I'm getting the vibe you will be forced to be Mock's Dan Savage.

Truly . . . and I mean truly, you have a lot to offer.

Instead of Savage's "Hey, Faggot" salutation ( I'm sorry he felt pressured to eventually drop), maybe questions directed to you should star with "Hey, Handsome", " Hey, Sweetness" or "Hey, You".

I do hope you will start a thread for all the homophobic, sexually confused males, of Mock, to seek your advice and counsel.

So many need your guidance.

And I hope you will demand a greeting, from such seekers, on par with Savage's former salutation.

You know . . . something a tad off color, yet appropriate.

Smooches!

Thanks Blue Tiki. That is quite a compliment.

(09-03-2015, 06:17 PM)Blindgreed1 Wrote: ]I was thinking about: "What's up Sky? Suck any good dick lately?" but I hadn't determined yet if he's too sensitive for a greeting like that? Sky? What say ye?

It's been about a year. I was dating a guy for 6 years prior to that and it's strange how we met. I knew by the chemistry that I had fallen in love. This was something I swore I would never do again after my lover dissappeared in Oct 2001. I went 8 years without a partner or sex and figured that was age appropriate.

(09-03-2015, 07:42 PM)sally Wrote: I think Ski is around 65, I don't think he's having any sex. Doesn't sex stop by that time?

I have learned I am only as old as the one I feel. In gay life you can be young at any age. But I prefer being in love.

(09-03-2015, 10:44 AM)Blindgreed1 Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 08:42 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 06:09 PM)Blindgreed1 Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 06:00 PM)sally Wrote: Even though Clang crossdresses and has admitted to being bi-curious he doesn't seem to have strong homosexual tendencies like MS. He's like a weird cross between Marv Albert, Fat Albert and Norm from Cheers. I can't picture Clang being straight up gay.

Also... Consider this. Freddy Mercury didn't know he was gay for most of his life, so never say never. Bi-curious can be just another way of saying gay isn't off the table.

It's off the table. I think I just feel cheated since I didn't do any "experimenting". Aww heck...what am I saying? Marry me, ya big gay bastard!

I'm straight bro, but thanks for the flattering offer.

I meant, SkiSky. But whatevs....*chucks the $2000 dollar engagement ring into the sewer*

(09-03-2015, 08:14 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(09-03-2015, 10:44 AM)Blindgreed1 Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 08:42 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 06:09 PM)Blindgreed1 Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 06:00 PM)sally Wrote: Even though Clang crossdresses and has admitted to being bi-curious he doesn't seem to have strong homosexual tendencies like MS. He's like a weird cross between Marv Albert, Fat Albert and Norm from Cheers. I can't picture Clang being straight up gay.

Also... Consider this. Freddy Mercury didn't know he was gay for most of his life, so never say never. Bi-curious can be just another way of saying gay isn't off the table.

It's off the table. I think I just feel cheated since I didn't do any "experimenting". Aww heck...what am I saying? Marry me, ya big gay bastard!

I'm straight bro, but thanks for the flattering offer.

I meant, SkiSky. But whatevs....*chucks the $2000 dollar engagement ring into the sewer*

Now where did you get $2000, you didn't get paid by DMV yet!?

(09-03-2015, 08:20 PM)Carsman Wrote:

(09-03-2015, 08:14 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(09-03-2015, 10:44 AM)Blindgreed1 Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 08:42 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 06:09 PM)Blindgreed1 Wrote: Also... Consider this. Freddy Mercury didn't know he was gay for most of his life, so never say never. Bi-curious can be just another way of saying gay isn't off the table.

It's off the table. I think I just feel cheated since I didn't do any "experimenting". Aww heck...what am I saying? Marry me, ya big gay bastard!

I'm straight bro, but thanks for the flattering offer.

I meant, SkiSky. But whatevs....*chucks the $2000 dollar engagement ring into the sewer*

Now where did you get $2000, you didn't get paid by DMV yet!?

test driving...er...wearing it from Tiffany's?

My parents were bigots, for probably no other reason then that "their" parents were also.

Therefore, I was raised a bigot.

However, over the years, I became my own person, and saw just how wrong, and short sighted they were. I formed my own opinions for myself.

I'm proud to say that now I do not "judge people" by their race, religion, creed, and or gender orientation.

I see how happy the gay people are with their partner's, and say, why not, live & let live.

I'm not gay, but I am happy, so live, & let live! (us all)

(09-03-2015, 08:23 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(09-03-2015, 08:20 PM)Carsman Wrote:

(09-03-2015, 08:14 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(09-03-2015, 10:44 AM)Blindgreed1 Wrote:

(09-02-2015, 08:42 PM)Clang McFly Wrote: It's off the table. I think I just feel cheated since I didn't do any "experimenting". Aww heck...what am I saying? Marry me, ya big gay bastard!

I'm straight bro, but thanks for the flattering offer.

I meant, SkiSky. But whatevs....*chucks the $2000 dollar engagement ring into the sewer*

Now where did you get $2000, you didn't get paid by DMV yet!?

test driving...er...wearing it from Tiffany's?

(09-03-2015, 08:23 PM)Carsman Wrote: My parents were bigots, for probably no other reason then that "their" parents were also.

Therefore, I was raised a bigot.

However, over the years, I became my own person, and saw just how wrong, and short sighted they were. I formed my own opinions for myself.

I'm proud to say that now I do not "judge people" by their race, religion, creed, and or gender orientation.

I see how happy the gay people are with their partner's, and say, why not, live & let live.

I'm not gay, but I am happy, so live, & let live! (us all)

The grace and acceptance you extend to others enhances others lives and in turn your own life. The world is a better place with guys like you in it, Carsman.

(09-03-2015, 08:03 PM)Ski at 1SKY6 Wrote: In gay life you can be young at any age.

I guess the hetero's can't be young at any age? Hmmmm? That's heterosexual discrimination right there. On full display.

Wait until aussie sees this. She's going to rip you a new one. And then probably want to marry you.