(04-21-2020, 09:48 PM)MirahM Wrote: I hate not being able to see family. : ( (In person)

Shit,  you live by yourself?

Uh yeah

I live by myself also but you need a cheat day. I follow the social distancing and self quarantine guidelines 99% of the time except on Saturday when I hang out with my brother and my friend.

(04-22-2020, 05:40 AM)MirahM Wrote: Uh yeah

Honestly,   it never dawned on me that some people live alone.   There are times when I wished that I lived alone,   but most of the time,  I love pestering my kid and hubby.   

Damn,   that really sux

Some people have cats, some have dogs, you have humans.

I'm quarantined with my husband. I'm enjoying it and am terrified by it, all at the same time.

Welcome.

I'm quarantined as well, with my wife, and terrified also !

(04-22-2020, 08:23 AM)Clang McFly Wrote: I live by myself also but you need a cheat day. I follow the social distancing and self quarantine guidelines 99% of the time except on Saturday when I hang out with my brother and my friend.

I fantasize about it. Never lived alone my whole life and when the fam went to europe for three weeks I had to watch the dog.

(04-24-2020, 08:32 PM)BigMark Wrote:

(04-22-2020, 08:23 AM)Clang McFly Wrote: I live by myself also but you need a cheat day. I follow the social distancing and self quarantine guidelines 99% of the time except on Saturday when I hang out with my brother and my friend.

I fantasize about it. Never lived alone my whole life and when the fam went to europe for three weeks I had to watch the dog.

This is the first time I lived alone for so long. It's just slightly over a year now. Last time I tried living alone was back in 2007, my first attempt at a living alone that only lasted 6 months. I was braver crossdressing then. Made it outside, not too far from the apartment, but outside. Nowadays I can only make it as far as the apartment lobby. I think i cooked more in those 6 months than i have so far in the year I've been here. I even tried baking chocolate chip cookies. They came out terrible but edible. My step niece at the time liked them anyway.

(04-22-2020, 08:23 AM)Clang McFly Wrote: I live by myself also but you need a cheat day. I follow the social distancing and self quarantine guidelines 99% of the time except on Saturday when I hang out with my brother and my friend.

I don't need a cheat day. Or I can't afford it anyway. Risk is too high. Bad enough I am working. Those are my "cheat" days. Since I can't go see family I don't go to anyone else's house or anywhere I don't have to go.

(04-22-2020, 08:52 AM)cannongal Wrote:

(04-22-2020, 05:40 AM)MirahM Wrote: Uh yeah

Honestly,   it never dawned on me that some people live alone.   There are times when I wished that I lived alone,   but most of the time,  I love pestering my kid and hubby.   

Damn,   that really sux

It is a double edged sword I suppose. I see people's posts on FB and the struggles they have, and how sometimes they wish they were alone. I am fine. But really I would rather be surrounded with people. It would also be easier if I at least had a cat or some pet.

I love my immediate family and without them I may as well be dead. There is no way I wont see my son everyday even though he doesnt live with me. You have to see your brother, Clang. It's just a must.

(04-25-2020, 12:17 AM)sally Wrote: I love my immediate family and without them I may as well be dead. There is no way I wont see my son everyday even though he doesnt live with me. You have to see your brother, Clang. It's just a must.

Well thank you for that sally. You don't know how I agonized over whether to tell anybody I was going to the cigar shop, shopping, and hanging with my brother. Even though I was staying inside 6 days a week, I felt like a guilty piece of shit that was going to somehow infect someone or get infected himself and was part of the problem of the curve not flattening and people were going to be angry with me for making this lockdown last longer.

Y'all aren't alone. Everyone justifies why they do it. Everyone.

You bunch of self centered hypocrites.

(04-25-2020, 10:24 AM)BigMark Wrote: You bunch of self centered hypocrites.

   no more than you.

(04-25-2020, 08:07 AM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(04-25-2020, 12:17 AM)sally Wrote: I love my immediate family and without them I may as well be dead. There is no way I wont see my son everyday even though he doesnt live with me. You have to see your brother, Clang. It's just a must.

Well thank you for that sally. You don't know how I agonized over whether to tell anybody I was going to the cigar shop, shopping, and hanging with my brother. Even though I was staying inside 6 days a week, I felt like a guilty piece of shit that was going to somehow infect someone or get infected himself and was part of the problem of the curve not flattening and people were going to be angry with me for making this lockdown last longer.

Fuck those people. My son and his girlfriend are still working and come in contact with people all day, but I'm not going to refrain from seeing them. You can only push this shit so far,  not seeing family members is where I draw the line.

(04-25-2020, 12:48 PM)sally Wrote:

(04-25-2020, 08:07 AM)Clang McFly Wrote:

(04-25-2020, 12:17 AM)sally Wrote: I love my immediate family and without them I may as well be dead. There is no way I wont see my son everyday even though he doesnt live with me. You have to see your brother, Clang. It's just a must.

Well thank you for that sally. You don't know how I agonized over whether to tell anybody I was going to the cigar shop, shopping, and hanging with my brother. Even though I was staying inside 6 days a week, I felt like a guilty piece of shit that was going to somehow infect someone or get infected himself and was part of the problem of the curve not flattening and people were going to be angry with me for making this lockdown last longer.

Fuck those people. My son and his girlfriend are still working and come in contact with people all day, but I'm not going to refrain from seeing them. You can only push this shit so far,  not seeing family members is where I draw the line.

Yeah fuck those people. I'm glad I got out today. Its 65 and sunny af.

My anniversary is May 11^th and then mother's day. We usually stay at a nice hotel in St. Augustine, walk around, go to all the outside bars and eat a bunch of good food. Now what the fuck are we going to do. Bummer.

have another kid

Yeah ok. Who the fuck am I supposed to get pregnant by? My husband is out in the back yard all drunk listening to Hank Williams and crying over the virus.