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PRENUP ~ YEA OR NAY
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07-07-2011, 12:14 PM


Would you be offended if you were asked to sign one? What's your personal feeling regarding them?
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07-07-2011, 12:21 PM
Nope . . . not offended.

Would I do it?

Now that's something I really need to think about.

It's a 'What' and 'Why' thing.
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07-07-2011, 12:42 PM
Shit happens. Prenups should be mandatory. I wouldn't just sign one as it was presented. I would negotiate. You don't marry people for the money, but everyone seems to have a different attitude come divorce time.
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07-07-2011, 12:46 PM
Congratulations Duchess!!!!! Smiley_emoticons_hurra3 When is the big day??
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07-07-2011, 02:02 PM
(07-07-2011, 12:46 PM)Maggot Wrote: Congratulations Duchess!!!!! Smiley_emoticons_hurra3 When is the big day??


Smiley_emoticons_shocked That would require a co..co..co..commitment.

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07-07-2011, 02:12 PM
I believe that if a pre-nup is introduced, and the person that's being asked to sign one truly loves the 'pre-nupper', it shouldn't be a big deal to sign.

Everyone knows that relationships can go to hell quickly. Being presented with a pre-nup should not be considered offensive. "Well, you obviously don't love me..." Bullshit. It's called reality.
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02-15-2013, 11:23 AM


Would you sign one OR have one drawn up?
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02-15-2013, 11:25 AM
If I was extremely wealthy yes if she was no.
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02-15-2013, 11:54 AM
(02-15-2013, 11:25 AM)ESAD Wrote: If I was extremely wealthy yes if she was no.

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02-15-2013, 12:04 PM
#shrugs#
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02-15-2013, 12:08 PM


I think sometimes people forget that prenups often protect the one signing as well.
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02-15-2013, 12:13 PM
If I was rich I would have her sign if we divorce she gets shit.
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02-15-2013, 12:14 PM
Actual shit.
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02-15-2013, 06:23 PM
(02-15-2013, 12:14 PM)ESAD Wrote: Actual shit.

hah

They're the most unromantic things in the world but unfortunately an evil necessity. It wouldn't sit well with me but I think I could get over it and participate in one (on either side).
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02-15-2013, 07:33 PM
Sometimes 20% is better than nothing if you started out with nothing.
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02-15-2013, 07:48 PM
(02-15-2013, 12:13 PM)ESAD Wrote: If I was rich I would have her sign if we divorce she gets shit.

Maybe someday you will have a pot to pee in and a window to throw it out off. Till then, no need for a prenup.
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02-15-2013, 07:58 PM
Savage burn idiot but I have quite a stable amount saved up ^_^
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02-23-2013, 09:49 PM
(02-15-2013, 11:23 AM)Duchess Wrote:

Would you sign one OR have one drawn up?

Yes. However, what a lot of people don't realize is if it signed before the couple is married duress is a valid defense to it and it can invalidate the the prenup. Also, the longer a couple us married the less likely the court is to uphold a prenup.

Many attornies will suggest to have one signed before you are married. Have it updated and signed after you are married and update it ever 7 years.
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02-23-2013, 09:51 PM
It would be better at 25 yrs, a silver anniversary gift.
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02-23-2013, 09:59 PM
Shrug....it's not romantic, but often a prenup protects both people involved. Also saves a lot in legal cost if there is a divorce. One can look at emotionally or logically. I prefer logic.
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