02-20-2012, 01:50 PM
(02-20-2012, 01:45 PM)Cracker Wrote: You don't think he hid the money in that account by now?
I don't know if New York is like Georgia, but I made more money so I didn't get a chunk of change for child support. Doesn't bother me. Kids figure stuff out on their own when they are older, so I don't even mention it.
He was too stupid to hide it as it was plain as day on his bank records. I don't discuss CS with the kids. I just do the best I can to give them what they need and some extras. My kids hate their father because he is a drunken abusive idiot. For years he denigrating me to the kids and I always told them that the important thing is that he loves them. Just remember that. Now that they are 15 and 12 they know the truth and it's not because I told them.
My ex really is a sociopath. I admit it took me a long time to come to terms with that. But since I have, I understand a lot more and how to deal with him. And mostly how I deal with him is to not have anything to do with him unless I absolutely have to. If I have to tell him something about the kids, I leave a message on his machine when I know he isn't home.
Devil Money Stealing Aunt 