07-25-2012, 07:39 PM
I plan on being cremated and I don't want ANYONE except the person who shoves me in the oven seeing my dead body.
My grandmother died at 99 and requested a closed casket. My uncle disregarded that and invited a few people to visit her. I declined but against my advice, my sister went. She came out shaken and said "that's not grandma" or something to that effect. Duh. My dad started changing within 20 minutes of his death; I know they clean people up but yeah, not in to the whole viewing thing. Never been to one.
My grandmother died at 99 and requested a closed casket. My uncle disregarded that and invited a few people to visit her. I declined but against my advice, my sister went. She came out shaken and said "that's not grandma" or something to that effect. Duh. My dad started changing within 20 minutes of his death; I know they clean people up but yeah, not in to the whole viewing thing. Never been to one.