06-21-2013, 10:57 PM
Are your daughter and her friend saying they'll never tell you ANYTHING EVER AGAIN, if you tell the neighbor? I hate that shit. You want to keep the lines open with your own kids so if they find out "you told" they're much more likely NOT to tell you stuff in the future. Sucks.
Still, I'd tell the other mom that something *might* be happening and she might want to check in to it. Then I'd threaten her with bodily harm if it comes out that you were the one who told her. She needs to figure out some way that she found out on her own without implicating you, your daughter or the other girl (unless they don't care about that).
Shitty situation but somehow letting the mom know would be the right thing to do. If someone told me that about my daughter, I'd be eternally grateful and would do everything possible to protect that person's identity.
Still, I'd tell the other mom that something *might* be happening and she might want to check in to it. Then I'd threaten her with bodily harm if it comes out that you were the one who told her. She needs to figure out some way that she found out on her own without implicating you, your daughter or the other girl (unless they don't care about that).
Shitty situation but somehow letting the mom know would be the right thing to do. If someone told me that about my daughter, I'd be eternally grateful and would do everything possible to protect that person's identity.
Commando Cunt Queen