hypothetical: calling all evil vagina monsters

[sally]

Nope. Never lied. Never said I was Jonovan. Never said I wanted sympathy for one camp or another. When opinions were given, I even pressed for clarification and took the opposite position to make sure there was no mistake. The fact that the situation was not really hypothetical was pretty much immediately evident; not one person thought I wasn't talking about my own life. BUT not one person asked which role I played, so I didn't offer the information. Sure, there was a deception. But it was you deceiving yourselves into thinking you had me all figured out, and me letting you think so.

It was a misunderstanding on her part, not a deliberate deception on his (part). =he didn't try to deceive her or lie to her.

Jedi, motherfuckers. Fear me.

I took it as hypothetical and addressed Jonovan as Jonovan until you told Ramsey right here that you are Jonovan. So you did lie and now that the roles are reversed it changes the scenario because now there are children involved whose mother can't financially support them.

@ramsey: elaborate. You've apparently seen through my extremely clever attempt at deception, now in what way am I an idiot?