04-06-2016, 08:17 PM
I would say that since you've been a father figure to the boy and financially supported him for the past four years it wouldn't be unreasonable to ask if you could stay in contact with him. Maybe pick him up once a week to take him to the movies or mini golfing or whatever, basically the same amount of time his own biological parents spend with him. But it doesn't sound like you're dealing with sane, rational people here so that's probably not an option.