06-28-2016, 08:08 AM
(06-27-2016, 04:06 PM)Blindgreed1 Wrote: I personally think women should be allowed to wear whatever they want, have a few drinks and not have to worry about being raped. Society feels differently though. What are your thoughts on the subject? Should these things (drinks and attire) ever be considered for a sex crime? Has any woman ever "asked for it?"
In no scenario whatsoever should rape considered "Asked for"
As a cocktail waitress-bartender for 15 years, I can say this-
Some women need to hold themselves to much higher standards in a bar. I have seen a lot of women come in wearing the shortest skirts and tightest shirts, and grind on men, and flaunt their boobs to get free drinks all night, -I've seen guys get pissed when they realize they spent so much money on the purty little thing that just walked out the door.
In a perfect world, we'd all be able to walk around nekkid, and nobody'd give you a second look. However, we live in a society where men like looking at tits and ass, mix it with alcohol and sometimes you end up with a recipe for disaster.
Most men think with the wrong head at bars, Maybe there should be a public awareness campaign about not buying women drinks and expecting them to put out after they grind on you. Put up little posters for the men's room and such. They can put it right next to the condom machine.