The Death List

[aussiefriend]

This was at my bitch aunt's house, not the hospital. My mom went to her sister's house to die because she didn't want my kids to see her that way at my house. Then my aunt tells these hospice assholes to stay there constantly. Not once did I get to talk to my mom in private. Not even when she was dead would they give me a moment alone, I'm sitting there holding her hand and crying and the bitch nurse comes over and closes her eyes. I wanted to scream to get the fuck away from me for two seconds already, I'm perfectly capable of closing my mothers eyes myself, but I held it back.

That sounds like a nightmare. My sister turned up at the end stage from interstate and was crying and carrying on, but it was all a big show.

Yeh it's about power with some relatives. Power and control. My sister had harrassed me years ago, but I shut her down legally. Poor mum, she had evil intentions, my sister did. 

I think it's a painful time, but all these annoying weird people doing this stuff when someone you truly care about is passing, creates unnecessary trauma for us that we have to process afterwards. I can tell from what you are describing sounds intrusive and disrespectful for you and your mum. It's like, back the fuck off!