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02-15-2009, 02:28 PM

ramseycat Wrote:Been married twice is the key right there. Did you not learn from the first failed marriage?

I worked and spent the rest of the day with my kids. Oh and BF stopped by work for lunch. That was the best lunch I have ever had. The sandwich he brought me was pretty good too.

Oh good lord, now I'm getting marriage advice from Ramsey? ::lmao::

**Momster** · 02-15-2009, 02:30 PM

Breakfast at a friends with the kids (homemade waffles shaped like hearts with homemade whipped cream, blueberries and strawberries)

Then for dinner my friend and her kids came over, I made NY strips, double baked taters, salad, and bought a white chocolate raspberry truffle cheesecake from the Cheesecake Factory. She then took my kids and hubby and I had a night alone Smiley_emoticons_smile

Her hubby was working night so I made him dinner too, he just has to eat his tonight.

**ramseycat** · 02-15-2009, 02:35 PM

LuMPyPussy Wrote:
ramseycat Wrote:Been married twice is the key right there. Did you not learn from the first failed marriage?

I worked and spent the rest of the day with my kids. Oh and BF stopped by work for lunch. That was the best lunch I have ever had. The sandwich he brought me was pretty good too.
Oh good lord, now I'm getting marriage advice from Ramsey? ::lmao::

No where in my post did I give you any advice. I merely asked if you didn't learn anything from the first failed marriage.

02-15-2009, 02:39 PM

ramseycat Wrote:
LuMPyPussy Wrote:
ramseycat Wrote:Been married twice is the key right there. Did you not learn from the first failed marriage?

I worked and spent the rest of the day with my kids. Oh and BF stopped by work for lunch. That was the best lunch I have ever had. The sandwich he brought me was pretty good too.
Oh good lord, now I'm getting marriage advice from Ramsey? ::lmao::
No where in my post did I give you any advice. I merely asked if you didn't learn anything from the first failed marriage.

Let me explain something to you that you might not comprehend. I was married to two different men. Different situations both times. So what I learned from the first failed marriage had no bearing on the second. That's why I'm not currently married, I'm obviously not suited to married life and I'm honest enough to accept that at the risk of idiots in forums calling me a spinster, a lesbian and/or a maniac. And you certainly have no place in questioning anything about my personal life considering the winner you were married to and remained married to even when the situation got ugly. So kindly shut your gaping piehole, you stupid cunt.

**Duchess** · 02-15-2009, 02:39 PM

ramseycat Wrote:Oh and BF stopped by

Ramsey, here's a little advice for you ~ Call him your lover...It sounds ridiculous for you to keep referring to him as your BF...How the hell old are you ?...Forty something, right ?

02-15-2009, 02:41 PM

Duchess Wrote:
ramseycat Wrote:Oh and BF stopped by
Ramsey, here's a little advice for you ~ Call him your lover...It sounds ridiculous for you to keep referring to him as your BF...How the hell old are you ?...Forty something, right ?

Boy friend is literally what he is, though.

02-15-2009, 02:41 PM

Liquid Wrote:
SyberBitch Wrote:Even though I'm no longer with my ex, we usually do something on holidays. We just went to Ruby Tuesday for the 9oz steak, broccoli and potato. I spent the rest of the day working. heh
you still spend holidays, especially emotional holidays like Valentine's day, with your X????? why? what possibly positive could come out of that?

I feel sorry for him sometimes. It's stupid. Then he invariably does something nasty to make me regret it.

I actually went 'dutch' on the meal, just to help reinforce that it was 'just a meal', not some special valentine thing.

02-15-2009, 02:43 PM

Liquid Wrote:"physical intimacy"... I would say this is what happened to you OP
(MF, PLEASE ALLOW this picture to stay in this post. it is just to good)

DOH!!! Now you're gonna get the whole thread moved to the nudie section :;beat::

02-15-2009, 02:45 PM

LuMPyPussy Wrote:
Duchess Wrote:You don't see women saying, My man's hotter than your man........Men ::rollseyes::
Women don't tend to think of their men as possessions.

We're often trying to find some peace AWAY from them... =p

02-15-2009, 02:47 PM

LuMPyPussy Wrote:I've never done it either but then I'm pretty unique, being a lesbian spinster maniac like I am.

Pssst hey... wanna go to Ruby Tuesday for steak?? 116

**ramseycat** · 02-15-2009, 03:01 PM

LuMPyPussy Wrote:
ramseycat Wrote:
LuMPyPussy Wrote:
ramseycat Wrote:Been married twice is the key right there. Did you not learn from the first failed marriage?

I worked and spent the rest of the day with my kids. Oh and BF stopped by work for lunch. That was the best lunch I have ever had. The sandwich he brought me was pretty good too.
Oh good lord, now I'm getting marriage advice from Ramsey? ::lmao::
No where in my post did I give you any advice. I merely asked if you didn't learn anything from the first failed marriage.
Let me explain something to you that you might not comprehend. I was married to two different men. Different situations both times. So what I learned from the first failed marriage had no bearing on the second. That's why I'm not currently married, I'm obviously not suited to married life and I'm honest enough to accept that at the risk of idiots in forums calling me a spinster, a lesbian and/or a maniac. And you certainly have no place in questioning anything about my personal life considering the winner you were married to and remained married to even when the situation got ugly. So kindly shut your gaping piehole, you stupid cunt.

It would seem I touched a nerve. You always take everything as an insult. And I have never called you a spinster. I often wonder why people get married and divorced multiple times. Mostly because it is sad. No one stays married anymore.

Yes, I did stay with my husband probably longer than I should have. I would have left him four years earlier but I found out I was pregnant with my second child. I did whatever I had to for my children. And it wasn't like he beat me everyday. I am not making excuses for him. That last six months we were together is when he really got out of control. I left. It's sad that things had to end that way. I am sad for my kids.

**Middle Finger** · 02-15-2009, 03:06 PM

Boy-lover Ramsey commenting on LMPP's marriage is hysterical.

**Duchess** · 02-15-2009, 03:08 PM

If you make me feel bad for you, I'm gonna want to slap someone silly. :;beat::

**ramseycat** · 02-15-2009, 03:12 PM

Duchess Wrote:If you make me feel bad for you, I'm gonna want to slap someone silly. :;beat::

I don't want anyone to feel bad for me. But you can slap Shy Guy silly if you in that kind of mood. ::irk::

**ramseycat** · 02-15-2009, 03:13 PM

Middle Finger Wrote:Boy-lover Ramsey commenting on LMPP's marriage is hysterical.

Marriages. Plural. And it's not like I am going to marry BF. It's just fun for the time being.

**Middle Finger** · 02-15-2009, 03:45 PM

ramseycat Wrote:And it's not like I am going to marry BF.

The way that is phrased makes me think you are either immature, or are hanging out on at least one site for dysfunctional women to talk about their current man.

02-15-2009, 04:14 PM

Middle Finger Wrote:
ramseycat Wrote:And it's not like I am going to marry BF.

The way that is phrased makes me think you are either immature, or are hanging out on at least one site for dysfunctional women to talk about their current man.

Oh that stuff used to drive me batshit on the mommy site. All of the dumb acronyms. SOME I can understand, like BIL for brother-in-law, since that's kind of cumbersome to type out over and over, but people use shit like 'DS' for 'Dear Son' instead of just 'son'. ::rollseyes::

Let's see, there was DS - Dear Son, DD, Dear Daughter, DH - Dear Husband (I mean come on, what if they're not so 'dear'? FUAH? - Fucked Up Asshole Husband?). To my utter annoyance, each 'expecting club' becomes a 'playgroup' after the babies are born. That's not the annoying part though. The annoying part is that each group picks some cutesie ass 'name' for their group, like 'December Snowbunnies' or 'March Muffins'. Well, the one I was in, went with 'February Sweethearts'. ::bvomit::

I left not long after that. I mean yes, I love my son, but I don't call him 'sweetheart' or 'hunnybear' or 'snookiewookums'. I call him 'kiddo', 'weiner', 'monkey-butt'... stuff like that. heheheheh

We had some really good alternative suggestions for the group name that were shot down though.... 'Little Squirts', 'Dungbeetles', 'Creepy Crawlers' were a few. For some reason, most of the other moms just didn't appreciate the humor.

**ramseycat** · 02-15-2009, 04:23 PM

I only type BF so I don't have to type out boyfriend. Lazy. I hate the DS, DD, and DH. Unless the DH stands for dickhead. This girl on one forum I was on called her boyfriend DA. As in dumbass. hahahaaa

If I am going to be on a forum I want to be able to swear and say whatever the fuck I want. Sometimes I call my kids heathens. They piss me off. Other times they don't. I can't stand forums where all the women are cutey sweety and they have perfect lives and marriages because no one has a life like that.

02-15-2009, 04:31 PM

ramseycat Wrote:I hate the DS, DD, and DH. Unless the DH stands for dickhead.

::lmao::

02-15-2009, 04:32 PM

ramseycat Wrote:
Middle Finger Wrote:Boy-lover Ramsey commenting on LMPP's marriage is hysterical.
Marriages. Plural. And it's not like I am going to marry BF. It's just fun for the time being.

Why are my 'plural' marriages an issue? It's not like it's terribly uncommon in our society. If that's all you can find to rag on me about, then you aren't trying hard enough.

And I didn't say YOU called me a spinster. It was mentioned earlier in this thread...you might want to work on your reading comprehension and retention.

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