WHAT DO YOU THINK ?

[Middle Finger]

The difficulty in being an Admin here is to maintain consistency while not allowing clique bitches to sway you. For example, there is currently an alliance between certain people here that had contacted me off-site in the past trying to get the other banned over something that was not even bannable. They don't care about the stress it puts on your or your "friendship." They just didn't like how well they were bested. That pathetic shit goes on constantly. That is why you might see an admin take on more of a fuck you attitude or get stricter with rules, such as I did.

You better not be including me in your delirious little scenario there, Stumpy. I don't get together with anyone behind the scenes to post enmasse. You're becoming paranoid.

And before you try to say how I "controlled" you with shit on the IM's when we talked, keep in mind you had your own shit to say as well. The only difference is that I just took it as conversation between us, you took it as fodder for your delusion. I've not once repeated anything we said between us openly where you have - ("OP she told me to call you a sissy").

Plenty of times I stuck up for you when your wife and kids were being slapped around, long before Liquid was the target. So did Liquid. Your little experiment in openess allowed me to be slanderd here TWICE as well. Stop pretending you cherish privacy unless it's about you.

l can confidently say I never said anyone should be banned. I've gone along with suggestions of a special place for them to fuck around but never have I said to outright ban anyone.

You know this is true because you pointed to two posts where you try to turn it around saying I'm agreeing with someone else suggesting a ban where it's clear I only pointed out you banned people for less and disagreed with the ban. Robodoon joined here and by post #14 and with him only posting his intro and no replies to it , was banned just for who he was. THAT is what I meant when I said, "You've banned people for less." in your not so clever link.

Now once again, I don't give a fuck who gets banned for whatever reason or not.

Duchess, I've always said parts of this site should be private - that's why Frank made the members only area in the first place. Make it all private except for the Management and Newbie Bullshit, Whatever Junk
and MAYBE one of the forums in these categories - Funny Shit & Good Shit or Personal Member Bullshit. That should be enough of a tease to give them a taste and see if they want in.

I won't even spend the time and energy. You are FULL OF SHIT.

[Middle Finger]

It was an example included with several others in addition to one I made up NOT a rant AT someone.

Please be an adult for 3 seconds.

So which is the one you made up?

Talk about "be an adult for 3 seconds"!

Why did you feel the need to make something up with anyone to make your point? I know, because you and Frank are the new tag team whiny bitches.

There's no tag team or clique - Julie is hated by the same people who fucked with me as well. PERIOD. Get over it.

[The Antagonist]

I won't even spend the time and energy. You are FULL OF SHIT.

Of course not! If you read it then you'd have to stop making shit up and stop believing your own bullshit stories.

[Middle Finger]

I won't even spend the time and energy. You are FULL OF SHIT.

Of course not! If you read it then you'd have to stop making shit up and stop believing your own bullshit stories.

::wave::

[Julie]

A member here posted a pic of herself and her spouse. Their faces are visible. Others posted pics of their pets or their breasts. There is nothing stopping any other member from using those pictures all over the Internet now.

Julie you have pictures of you, your spouse, your child, your extended family and your home on Facebook. Do you really think FB is more secure or private than other website out there?

Julie, you are mistaken. I have no pics of my extended family or my home on FB. I have those on Our Mom Spot. On FB you do have a greater measure of control over who sees your pics. In discussion groups, it's whoever else happens to be a member.

Either way, I post nothing anywhere that would harm me if it were totally "out there."

[Julie]

It was an example included with several others in addition to one I made up NOT a rant AT someone.

Please be an adult for 3 seconds.

So which is the one you made up?

The "what if" scenario regarding the pics of a member's house Ant.

Please stop.

[Julie]

I don't care too much one way or another but this seems like a good middle ground. It doesn't seem right that someone like Cracker has access to ALL our posts before becoming a member. Some portion, fine but not the entire forum.

Exactly.

[Julie]

That's what this Clique does - they take shit off site, email each other, send links, research ... that is why Lumpy gets herself banned eventually. I've banned her twice here I think and like 4 times at my other site under different usernames. They make forums their life and way too important. It's fucking nuts.

I can see that & it saddens me.














































Well..not really.

[QueenBee]

How much of a tease are you willing to give? When I came on, I already knew pretty much of what was going on here, as a knew several of the members from 24.
But, I agree with what someone said that some folks want to know something about a forum before joining...and before knowing whether going through Newbie Hell will be worth it.
This forum is not for everyone...ya gotta be comfortable in your own skin to make it here. I think there needs to be enough of a tease to let folks know just exactly what we are..and we are not just another hearts and flowers mommy forum.

Now excuse me while I go back to figuring out why people feel the need to strap two sticks on their feet and go racing down a hill...for fun and sport.

[Lady Cop]

QB: Now excuse me while I go back to figuring out why people feel the need to strap two sticks on their feet and go racing down a hill...for fun and sport.

me: because it's a thrill like flying! YAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! :B

[thekid65]

me: because it's a thrill like flying! YAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! :B

Until you hit a steel column while traveling @ 90mph.

On topic, leave the forum as is.

[thekid65]

On topic, leave the forum as is.

Actually, the more I think about it, just leave newbie hell and headquarters open to new members. I used to be of the opinion that most potential members would want to peruse a board before registering to see if it would hold their interest. But as of late, all potential members would see here, in thread, after thread, after thread..... is a bunch of whiny drama queens re-hashing the same old crap (racism, PI, bannings, other forum drama, etc, etc, etc) that nobody really cares about, especially a new member that didnt know any of the players involved.

Like I told Duchess in a pm, the shit is really starting to turn me off to this joint.

[Lady Cop]

me: because it's a thrill like flying! YAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! :B

Until you hit a steel column while traveling @ 90mph.

that would be the luge. or a motor vehicle.
in skiing there is control involved, the people who smash into trees and die have usually been skiing out of control and above their ability.

[Cracker]

I see your concerns. If people would just have some sense and be aware of what they post, I don't think you would have any problems.

If you don't show enough of the forum, people won't want to join. It's really up to you. You are the one that will have to listen to people bitch when you make the decision either way.

I didn't run right in and look for naked pics (see, I am female, lol), but I did look in the member's area.

[IMaDick]

Duchess private areas are a necessity, limited access to some content is also necessisary.

newbie hell and the general members forum are sufficient to get the job done for new members.

the rest should be closed until full member status is achieved and the members only area should be a perk when the new member hits a designated number of posts.

at least they won't just join rip a few naked pics and haul ass.

[sally]

What ever happened to that guy who posted a picture of his chunky naked ass? Seems weird that someone would just join to post a picture of their bare bottom and never be heard from again. Same thing with that other guy who posted a picture of his naked girlfriend. This place sure does attract a lot of weirdos.

[The Antagonist]

I think if everyone who's had "private info" posted or PM's exposed had simply denied or ignored the info (pm's) none of this completely insane paranoia and discussion about privacy would be going on right now.

I know the post that got Lumpy banned but I never followed the link. I just didn't care enough about it but I can tell you I did post about that fucked up clown designer JB posted there and pleny of others, including Duchess posted in that thread without obviously bothering to look at the link that was "offensive".

If that was Frank's real info, all he had to do was deny it was him. His name is common. If he bitched that it was a location, I call bullshit because ALL of us have mentioned our location in the past on this board.

But Frank got his sack in a twist for the sole reason it was Lumpy who did it twice to him. Yeah, go ahead and turn this post into a defense of Lumpy when in reality it's nothing of the kind. Do you think just MAYBE if you lightened up or took a periodic break from your insane ragging on her, trying to control newbies to "hate" her that she may have reciprocated in kind? Go on and say she started first. I dare you, because I can dig up just as much from you to equalize that shit. The last 6 months you showed a distateful side of Frank that was NOT "in the spirit of the site".

If Julie only laughed at Cracker instead of feeding it, that too would not go on for over 20 pages. If Julie didn't say a word about her "exposed" pm none of the animosity between her and Lumpy would exist. Julie posted that shit openly before any pm's were exchanged. I've said as much when that was going on too but Julie couldn't help herself and morphed it into racism long before Duchess "offended" her with a word.

It's a mock forum. EVERYONE here has been guilty of mocking income, children, location, social status, someone's job and more. All of a sudden because of the real life hatred Frank has toward one member, this shit got way out of control and paranoia seems to be the mood of the day. Change those rules and its' not Mock anymore.

Go on Frank, tell Duchess how to access those PM's now in the admn panel so personal info is kept PRIVATE. Tell her how you think this and that should be changed to suit your needs. NO ONE has made such a stink over this until it was done to you - all it needed to be was denied. No one would have known the difference.

[Duchess]

Why in hell would I want to access anyones pm's for christssake...Has everyone lost their fuckin' minds ?...Jesus Christ.

[Middle Finger]

There are now some simple standards and rules established for this site. I can abide by them, and I hope others don't make excuses or try to find loopholes, cry, etc. to get around the spirit of the standard.

Hail Duchess & Fuck The Member Info Researching Assholes.

[The Antagonist]

Why in hell would I want to access anyones pm's for christssake...Has everyone lost their fuckin' minds ?...Jesus Christ.

Because Paranoid Frank suggested that in Cracker's thread somewhere is why I mentioned that.