Infidelity

[Cracker]

I have to be happy with me in order to be happy in general.

Because you have a soul. You pretty much described the ideas of Karma and Merit.

If you don't like or respect yourself, who else is going to? Look at Dick, he thinks he's the shit, so he thinks he's the shit. hahahahaha

[Duchess]

I didn't mean to imply you have a little mind, Cracker but, I wasn't comfortable saying, your big, fat brain.

[Cracker]

I didn't mean to imply you have a little mind, Cracker but, I wasn't comfortable saying, your big, fat brain.

Eh, no worries. I'm not sensitive about much. One or two things. Maybe three. That's not one of them.

I think there is a sizeable percentage of married people that don't have sex for years or at all. They stay together because they are either really good friends, or because they are too pathetic to separate. If you have a family and a life that you enjoy, I can see making alternative arrangements sexually IF it is agreed upon. I'm not very prudish that way. Sneaking around is wrong, though, and would lead to hurt feelings and a great divorce settlement.

I know a few couples who don't "do it" at all. They are fine with it. They do other stuff. I also know couples that hate each other and are tied together financially. They hump when they are having that one good day a month where they get along. That just sucks for everybody.

[Mohammed]

I went thru an embarrassingly massive amount during my first marriage. I was young, I was hot, I was born to please, living in Asias sex pots and simply just trained to give people a fabulous time. What to do.

But am happy for it because it got out of my system and now I find it amusing to see 60 year olds hitting the same streets and acting like teenies that just discovered pussy. However, thru that process came also a lot of pain. Especially to others. Obviously.

So now am at a stage where I don't really see cheating as cheating on my wife but more so on my daugther. Cos once I do it is pretty much her who will go thru all the resulting troubles, anguish and pain that will eventually follow. And I just have to look at her and no ass, no matter how scrumptious and well wrapped, is worth that!

[kfran]

So now am at a stage where I don't really see cheating as cheating on my wife but more so on my daugther. Cos once I do it is pretty much her who will go thru all the resulting troubles, anguish and pain that will eventually follow.

Very true, it's not about being selfish anymore once you have a child- have to think about someone other than yourself.

I guess a lot of it does have to do with self respect & really respect for others as well. I struggle w/a blanket feeling about infidelity as every situation is a little different. I don't necessarily equate sex w/emotion.