well they sure need to take a hard look at the husband.
i have to research this case, back soon.
i think she has an infant son also, who is with her parents.
it took a long time for her to be reported missing. :(
(CBS/WUSA) LOUDOUN COUNTY, Va. - Investigators in Virginia are looking for Bethany Anne Decker, a pregnant 21-year-old who police say has been missing for more than a month.
Decker was reported missing on Feb. 19, but was last seen on Jan. 29.
Investigators say her family reported her missing after numerous failed attempts to reach her, according to CBS affiliate WUSA.
Her car was found parked in a garage at her Ashburn, Va. apartment, but without signs or clues as to Decker's whereabouts. She's a senior at Virginia's George Mason University.
Investigators say just before she went missing, she had gone on a vacation to Hawaii with her husband, an Army soldier who was back in the states on leave from Afghanistan.
Shortly after the Hawaii vacation her husband, Emile Decker, re-deployed to Afghanistan.
According to Loudoun County Sheriff's Captain Ken Pratt, Emile Decker returned to Afghanistan "just a little after" his wife was last heard from, reports WUSA.
Loudoun sheriff's officials aren't treating this as suspicious, but they are leaving every possibility open.
"Everything is under investigation obviously. We have a missing person, and we've got to look at everything," Pratt told WUSA. "Our main thing is we want to locate Bethany."
Anyone with information on her disappearance is urged to call the Loudoun County Sheriff's Office at 703-777-0407.
Investigators said her cell phone, credit cards, Facebook and bank accounts have not been used since January 29, the day witnesses allegedly last saw Decker enter her apartment.
she does have a son, 17 mos. old, named Kai. he lives with her parents because she attends school and works.
I saw this on CNN's website this morning. Likely husband is involved, all too common anymore. The book Armywives details several wives murders by their military husbands. As a military spouse,myself, my heart aches for this woman & her unborn child.
It's the hint of arsenic that gives it that extra kick.
it's being confirmed by mainstream media that she did have a boyfriend. no name yet, but reports are that he is giving conflicting statements.
and her parents withheld this information, at least initially. made it sound like it was normal for her to be out of touch for weeks even though they have her little son. i knew that didn't ring true.
Washington Post:
Loudoun County Sheriff's deputies on Tuesday searched the home of the last person to see Bethany Anne Decker, 21, a pregnant Ashburn woman missing for over a month, according to authorities.
The Loudoun Sheriff's Office declined to detail the outcome of the search of the Centreville home where the man, described in court papers as Decker's current boyfriend, lives with his mother.
The search warrant affidavit indicated that investigators were looking for evidence that might help locate Decker. The results of the search were not available Friday afternoon at the Fairfax County Courthouse.
The Centreville man, the father of Decker's unborn child, saw Decker on Jan. 29, the papers say. He moved out of Decker's Ashburn apartment in February, police said, and made conflicting reports to police about when he first noticed Decker's car parked outside her apartment, according to the affidavit.
Decker also has a 17-month-old son with her husband, U.S. Army Private
Emile Decker, who is currently deployed in Afghanistan.
Both men have been interviewed by detectives and are cooperating in the investigation, according to Vincent DiBenedetto, a Loudoun Sheriff's spokesman.
Investigators said Friday that they have not uncovered signs of foul play,
and have no identified suspects or persons of interest in the case.
Loudoun Sheriff's Investigators held a press conference Wednesday with
Decker's family members to step up public outreach efforts in hopes of finding her. Despite questioning regarding the status of Decker's marriage and the identity of the father of Decker's unborn child, investigators did not mention any of the details in the search warrant affidavit filed in Fairfax County Circuit Court the day before.
An attorney for Decker's family declined comment Friday. "The Nelsons and the Bayleses are cooperating with the police fully," said Peter Burns. "The best way to help Bethany is to help the police."
Information obtained from a search warrant on Friday, states that Bethany Anne Decker is pregnant with the child of her boyfriend and is married to Emile Decker and they have a 17-month-old son.
The search warrant affidavit indicated that investigators were looking for evidence that might help locate Decker. The Centreville boyfriend, who attends George Mason University and lives with his mother says he saw Bethany Decker on Jan. 29. He moved out of Decker's Ashburn apartment in February, police said. The boyfriend also made conflicting reports to police about when he first noticed Decker's car parked outside her apartment, according to the affidavit.
Another search warrant is requesting information to "identify the creator and user" of Bethany Anne Decker's Facebook account. The warrant states that someone has been on Bethany's "inactive" Facebook account and was "chatting" with her friends.
Both men have been cooperating with the investigation and Emile will be returning to Ashburn from Afghanistan as soon as possible to talk to authorities in person.
This is a messed up love triangle. It appears common knowledge that she had a boyfriend & was pregnant by him, yet married to the PVT & vacationed w/him in Hawaii.
It's the hint of arsenic that gives it that extra kick.
(03-05-2011, 10:38 PM)Lady Cop Wrote: Both men have been cooperating with the investigation and Emile will be returning to Ashburn from Afghanistan as soon as possible to talk to authorities in person.
I recently saw Nancy Grace address the issue of the husband being in Afghanistan & she was utterly outraged that he didn't return from there immediately upon hearing his wife was missing & she found him guilty because of that. There were a couple people trying to explain to her that the military doesn't work that way & she told them to shut up or they would have their mics turned off.
(03-05-2011, 10:38 PM)Lady Cop Wrote: Both men have been cooperating with the investigation and Emile will be returning to Ashburn from Afghanistan as soon as possible to talk to authorities in person.
I recently saw Nancy Grace address the issue of the husband being in Afghanistan & she was utterly outraged that he didn't return from there immediately upon hearing his wife was missing & she found him guilty because of that. There were a couple people trying to explain to her that the military doesn't work that way & she told them to shut up or they would have their mics turned off.
I am tired of that woman (Nancy Grace), what a stupid bitch!
Of course military does not work that way!
Originally it was believed that Decker's husband was the last to see her Jan. 29, but according to a search warrant affidavit, the boyfriend, 21-year-old Ronald Roldan, saw her later that night. Police said Decker and Roldan were living together for two months and she was five months pregnant with his baby.
The Loudoun County Sheriff’s Office continues to investigate the disappearance of a Mason student who was last heard from Jan. 29. After several weeks of not hearing from her, the senior Global and Environmental Change major was reported missing by her family on Feb. 19.
Bethany Anne Decker, 21, was last seen by a friend at her Ashburn apartment at the end of January, according to police, who also found Decker’s car at the apartment complex. Police said there were no signs in Decker’s apartment that she had planned to leave. There has also not been any activity on Decker’s Facebook page, credit cards or cell phone, according to investigators.
A Mason spokesman told NBC Washington that Decker was registered for spring 2011 classes and had paid tuition, but did not show up for spring semester classes. Mason Student Government also confirmed to C2M that Decker served as Undersecretary for Sustainability during the 2008-09 academic year.
A Facebook group created to raise awareness of Decker’s disappearance had attracted more than 1,200 members by Wednesday night, but the group’s administrators sent a message late Wednesday saying the page is being shut down.
“Pray for and Support Bethany Decker/Littlejohn and Her Family is being shut down,” the message said. “Sorry, everyone, but I have gotten multiple messages about this event causing harm to the investigation.”
The message went on to say, “All we can do now is pray and wait.”
Decker’s brother, Kyle Littlejohn, told C2M by e-mail Wednesday that his sister “was a very loving character.”
“She was always up beat, energetic and there for anyone that needed help,” Littlejohn said. “She loved George Mason and was very in to the environment. She always strived for perfection and was one of the friendliest and kindest people I know.”
Authorities last week searched the home of a Centreville man identified as the last person to see missing mother Bethany Anne Decker before she disappeared at the end of January. The results were revealed this morning.
Despite the search and previously not revealing that Decker had a boyfriend, investigators continue to stress that no suspects have been identified, nor has evidence of a crime been found.
"There are no suspects because we don't necessarily have a particular crime we are dealing with," said Investigator Vince DiBenedetto, a spokesman for the Loudoun County Sheriff's Office. Everyone involved is considered a witness at this point, not a suspect, he said. He also said the boyfriend, Ronald Roldan, is cooperating with authorities.
Shannon Codere, the Loudoun County investigator who submitted the affidavit for the warrant, cited several reasons for searching the home.
"[Roldan] made conflicting statements regarding when he noticed her car being parked in the parking lot in front of their shared apartment. Decker went to Hawaii with her estranged husband just days prior to her disappearance. Roldan is described as controlling and abusive by Decker to her family and friends prior to her disappearance," the warrant reads.
Although the warrant cites two possible felonies – first- and second-degree murder – as justification for the search, the Sheriff's Office stressed Tuesday afternoon that police do not know yet whether this is ultimately a missing persons case or something else. DiBenedetto declined to say if authorities had developed any new leads after searching the home.
Decker, 21, a GMU student who lived in Ashburn, was last seen on Jan. 29, shortly before her husband, Emile Decker, deployed to Afghanistan. She is believed to be five months pregnant with her boyfriend's child. She and her husband have a 17-month-old son, who lives with Bethany Decker’s parents. Decker’s family reported her missing on Feb. 19, after having no contact with her since the end of January. Emile Decker has been in touch with investigators and is cooperating.
Roldan moved in with his mother on Saint Germain Drive in Centreville in February, according to the warrant. Loudoun County investigators confiscated two Blackberry cell phones, three other phones, a Mac notebook computer, an external unified video decoder (UVD), photos, two ticket stubs and a receipt from a Sunoco gas station, results of a search warrant filed in Fairfax County Circuit Court reveals. While the warrant was filed last week, the court clerk stamped the findings March 8.
Investigators also seized immigration papers, a black bag with assorted papers, two contact cases, three keys and a remote control device, along with Giant and Harris Teeter cards.
Anyone with information on Decker's whereabouts, or who has seen her since Jan. 29, should contact Loudoun County Sheriff's Investigator M. Halley at 703-777-0475.
Authorities are naming Bethany A. Decker's husband and boyfriend as "people of interest" in the investigation into the pregnant Army wife's disappearance.
Decker, a 21-year-old student at George Mason University, was last seen Jan. 29. Her husband, 21-year-old Emile Decker, left for Afghanistan with his Army National Guard unit on Feb. 2. Investigators have questioned both Decker — who has returned from Afghanistan — and Decker's boyfriend, 30-year-old Ronald Roldan, said Vincent DiBenedetto, spokesman for the Loudoun County Sheriff's Office.
He said neither man is considered a suspect at this point.
"A person of interest is someone we wanted to talk to, it's a person who had some information," he said.
Officials have also searched Bethany Decker's apartment and wooded areas nearby. No signs of foul play have been uncovered.
Decker is about five to six months pregnant, and authorities had previously identified Roldan as the baby's father. But DiBenedetto said Thursday that Emile Decker was home from Afghanistan at the beginning of October, when Bethany would have become pregnant, and investigators don't know who the father is.
Sources: Authorities think missing Ashburn woman may be hiding
Friday - 4/15/2011, 1:51pm ET
WASHINGTON - Investigators are taking seriously the possibility that a missing pregnant woman from Ashburn is alive and hiding, sources tell WTOP.
Bethany Decker disappeared in late January. WTOP has learned investigators found Decker's purse in her apartment when she was reported missing, and they are considering the possibility she is hiding and with someone else despite no activity on her cell phone or credit cards.
Decker's husband, Emile Decker, was serving in the U.S. Army in Afghanistan and was thought to be the last person to see her. Investigators have since said Decker's boyfriend, Ronald Roldan, was living with her and is believed to be the last person to see her before she went missing.
Emile Decker remains home from Afghanistan and is cooperating with authorities.
The Loudoun County Sheriff's Office has named Roldan a person of interest in the disappearance, and believe he is the father of Decker's unborn child. According to investigators, Bethany Decker had described her boyfriend's demeanor to family and friends as "controlling and abusive."
Roldan has a lawyer and is no longer answering questions in the case.
WTOP's Neal Augenstein contributed to this report. Follow Neal and WTOP on Twitter.
i dont really understand how anyone could think shes alive given the amount of time she has been missing for. and if she's pregnant wouldnt she have had to visit a doctor by now? i definitely dont think shes alive. so upset by the lack of info on this one.. she just dissappeared?
Today marks the 22nd birthday of Bethany Anne Decker, the pregnant Ashburn woman who has been missing since late January, and there is little to report in the investigation into her disappearance, and the Loudoun County Sheriff's Office continues to search for clues that might investigators to her.
"There is still no indication of foul play, but there also has been no activity on her bank accounts, e-mail, and she has not been attending her classes at George Mason," sheriff's office spokesperson Kraig Troxell said yesterday.
bits and pieces of new information in this article..
For the past three and half months, investigators have worked to determine the whereabouts of Bethany Anne Decker, a 21-year-old Ashburn mother and George Mason University student who has a second child on the way.
Hope remains that the young woman will one day call her young son or her mother and say she’s alright, but such hopes fades with each passing day. She was about five months pregnant when she disappeared, meaning she should have just about reached full term by now. Neither the cell phone known to be hers nor any of her credit cards have been used since she was last seen Jan. 29.
Investigators have not released specific details about Decker’s cell phone or credit cards, such as where and when they were last used prior to or on Jan. 29. However, they have released a timeline that places Decker in Columbia, Md., on Jan. 29 with family members, including her grandmother and her husband, Emile Decker. Decker’s mother, Kimberly Nelson, said she communicated with the gathering by speakerphone.
“That was the last time I had spoken with her,” Nelson said during a press conference in early March.
Later in the evening on Jan. 29, Decker returned to her apartment in Ashburn, where her boyfriend, Ronald Roldan, told investigators he saw her. Capt. Kenneth A. Pratt, an investigator with the Loudoun County Sheriff’s Office, described the last time she was seen as “arriving home and going to her apartment.”
ASHBURN, Va. -- On the weekend that Bethany Decker was due to give birth, the Loudoun County Sheriff's Office is providing new details and pictures of the woman who's been missing since January, and her family is holding out hope she's alive.
"It's as if she dematerialized one day," family spokesman Peter Byrnes tells WTOP.
Investigators released a photo of a unique tattoo Decker has on her left leg just above her ankle.
Detectives are questioning Decker's friends and coworkers at Carrabba's Italian Grill in Centreville.
Sources tell WTOP Carrabba's is where Decker met her boyfriend, Ronald Roldan. Investigators searched Roldan's mother's home, with a search warrant.
According to a written statement, investigators want to speak with "anyone who knew Bethany, or has information regarding anyone she was involved in a relationship with."
Decker had described her boyfriend's demeanor to family and friends as "controlling and abusive," according to investigators in court documents.
In initial meetings with reporters, Decker's family and investigators did not acknowledge she was dating Roldan, despite being married to Emile Decker, who was serving in Afghanistan.
Byrnes says Decker's family was aware she was dating. It's unclear who fathered Decker's child.
"I know that they were not delighted with it," Byrnes says.
"If Bethany is out there and hearing this, all you need to do is call your family or the Loudoun County Sheriff's Department and say, 'Hi, it's Bethany, and I'm OK.' She doesn't even have to tell us where she is. We just want to know that she's fine."
Investigators and family members say there has been no indication of foul play, activity on her bank accounts, cell phones or email, so they continue to believe she may be alive.
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This is a messed up love triangle. It appears common knowledge that she had a boyfriend & was pregnant by him, yet married to the PVT & vacationed w/him in Hawaii.
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