The reason I am so pissy

[ramseycat]

Oh but I'm sure Dick and Cracker still think it's all Ramsey's fault.

Meh whatever. I have made my share of mistakes in life as has everyone else. But my ex really is fucked up beyond all reason. And yes I have accepted that I made a BAD choice in choosing a husband. However in my defense, he is 1000 times worse now than he was 25 years ago.

In a divorce/custody situation it all boils down to one simple thing - Do you love your kids more than you hate your ex? In my case yes. In his case no.

[Smegma]

Who hasn't made a bad choice in partners at least once in their lives? It's a learning curve and I bet you'll never land in this situation again. It's the people that continue to make bad choices over and over again that should earn our scorn.

[JsMom]

OMG, Ramsey. Glad your son was ok. I can not believe the exhole did that to his own child.

[Cracker]

Exactly Duchess. I just bitch here and vent. It's not like I expect anyone here to solve anything. I would rather be me than a dried up cranky judgemental RACIST bitch like well we all know who I mean without me having to say it.

You are at work. You bitch here and vent AT WORK. Mock displays your last 100 posts or so, ALL at work. ALL of them.

You are older than I am. I have posted my picture here before, so anyone who saw it would know I look ten years younger than my chronological age. Hardly dried up. Youthful would be a better description of me.

You are pushing 50 and you aren't aging well. You are almost 50 and you are a drama llama.

The racist thing doesn't bother me. I expect people not to live like shit. I don't accept it. Here is a news flash that will shock you: I know thousands of black people. Thousands. Most of them love me because I am not an apologist liar that smiles to their faces. I let them know when something is fucked up. Keep calling me racist Mockers, Cracker laughs.

You should know better at your age. I'm a little taken aback that you, almost 50 years old, can't handle your family situation better. I don't have drama like that even though I have been faced with similar situations because I'm not a sympathy-seeking tard.

So who is the asshole? Who is the eternal victim?

It's kinda funny how some people jump to the conclusion that I am pissed about him not giving my kids money. Or that I bash him constantly. Or that he is really a good guy that is trying and I am keeping his kids from him.

Oh and Cracker, child support and visitation are two separate issues. Whether or not he pays support has not bearing on his visitation rights. My kids are 15 and 12 and are old enough to decide if they want to see their father or not according to the judge so I am not in contempt of anything. Oh yea and the last time the exhole saw my oldest son he took him to NYC without my knowledge. He told my son not to tell me they were going. While down there he proceeded to drink all fucking day to the point where my son called me at 11:30 at night to come pick him up. The hotel called the cops. They made the ex leave the hotel and let my son stay there and came back at 6:30am to take him to the train station to come home. Amtrack wouldn't let him on the train alone so I hopped the first train down to pick him up. What did the ex do? He took the train home and left his son in NYC alone. It's a good thing I worked it out with the cops and the hotel to let my son stay there and for them to watch over him until I could get there. Oh and the exhole paid $360 for a hotel room and over $100 for train tickets down there. Yet he cannot pay child support. This is the kind of shit I have to deal with and it only gets worse.

I'm sure this is the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

It has to be one of the most dysfunctional things I have read lately (besides the stuff about kids and porn I read the other day looking up your drama bullshit). I would classify it as dirty laundry. Why would you display your horrible family dysfunction and dirty laundry on the Internet? Are you thinking I'm going to suddenly feel sorry for you?

It is white trash behavior. You are old enough to know better. Shame on you.

[Smegma]

So you can read that and still blame Ramsey. What the fuck is wrong with you?

[ramseycat]

So you can read that and still blame Ramsey. What the fuck is wrong with you?

Don't worry about it Smegma. Cracker doesn't know the whole story. She didn't even bother to read what I posted. Her opinion means nothing to me. I know in my heart that I am doing the best that I can for my kids. Always have and always will. And yes I am pushing 50 at 47 and yes I do post from work most of the time. I however get all of my work done and no one waits for their insurance check. That isn't even what I do mostly but whatever. Cracker can judge all she wants as it's clear that is what she does best. BTW Cracker, I too don't look my age. I get mistaken for early 30's all the time. I guess that is why I was able to bang a 27 year old for close to a year. Maybe you should try that too. It might improve your mood.

[Cracker]

So you can read that and still blame Ramsey. What the fuck is wrong with you?

Are your kids grown and healthy and happy? Mine are. There are very few bad memories that include me. There are a few on the other side, but I have helped them make their own peace with that. The youngest one smiles sometimes and says, "I love my life." Success!

Blame is a waste of time. You can't seem to get beyond that concept on your own, so I had to point it out.

Grow up, ramsey. Do what you need to do and stop fucking whining. It IS your fault. You are in charge of your own life. People hate to fucking hear that, but nothing is more true.

I have victim stories, but I grew up. I let that shit go and made sure I don't get sucked into real life dysfunction. If something bad happens, I take care of it. I don't want a medal or a pat on the back or your barren support, I know what I am and what I do. It is enough for me to have a happy family life.

Now get back to being middle-aged drama llamas. It reveals more about your personality than a snappy comeback. And don't forget to feed your cat.

[Cracker]

Cracker doesn't know the whole story. She didn't even bother to read what I posted.

Cracker doesn't care. You are too old to act like such a fool.

Maybe Smegma can adopt.......you.

Simple truth: You are victimizing your kids with your drama. You can claim you don't do that at home all you want, but you and I both know you are lying. You are making their lives worse instead of better. Think about that for a minute. Get past all your drama and poor me bullshit and really think about it. I have read some stuff on here to support my opinion.

How did I read it? Because you are fucking stupid and keep posting your drama.

[ramseycat]

How you read in all of my posts that I blame my ex husband for my life is beyond me. I do blame him for his shitty treatment of our kids. Yes I do. I am not going to bother to tell you how happy and healthy my kids are. How much they love me and how much fun we have together. Well I guess I just did. Anyway, just because my kids have a shitty father doesn't mean they have a bad life. They have disappointment but we deal with it. They know who they can count on. They know who is always going to be there for them. They know who loves them more than anything. That's all that matters really.

[Smegma]

So you can read that and still blame Ramsey. What the fuck is wrong with you?

Are your kids grown and healthy and happy? Mine are. There are very few bad memories that include me. There are a few on the other side, but I have helped them make their own peace with that. The youngest one smiles sometimes and says, "I love my life." Success!

Blame is a waste of time. You can't seem to get beyond that concept on your own, so I had to point it out.

Grow up, ramsey. Do what you need to do and stop fucking whining. It IS your fault. You are in charge of your own life. People hate to fucking hear that, but nothing is more true.

I have victim stories, but I grew up. I let that shit go and made sure I don't get sucked into real life dysfunction. If something bad happens, I take care of it. I don't want a medal or a pat on the back or your barren support, I know what I am and what I do. It is enough for me to have a happy family life.

Now get back to being middle-aged drama llamas. It reveals more about your personality than a snappy comeback. And don't forget to feed your cat.

Cats. I've got two. I love them dearly.

Hissy Bitch:



Bernie:



And a random photo of something I had ordered on ebay but got lost at the Atlanta main post office, the fuckers:



That still pisses me off.

[ramseycat]

Cracker don't know shit. You can accuse me of lying all you want but that don't make it so. Hmm sounds to me like maybe you are the one lying about how great your life is. If that were the case, you wouldn't be such a bitch.

[Smegma]

That still pisses me off, that fly pin was gorgeous. 14K gold. God damn postal worker.

[Smegma]

I'm getting angry all over again.

[ramseycat]

I'm getting angry all over again.

Maybe you need an orgasm to make you happy again.

[Smegma]

I'm kind of a hoarder, I LOVE shiny, valuable objects. I could probably stroke off thinking about acquiring a delightful piece of golden art like that but masturbating while thinking of some asshole in a Georgia post office stealing it from me ain't gonna work.

[JsMom]

yah, that's not much of a turn on. Them Bastards!

[ramseycat]

I'm kind of a hoarder, I LOVE shiny, valuable objects. I could probably stroke off thinking about acquiring a delightful piece of golden art like that but masturbating while thinking of some asshole in a Georgia post office stealing it from me ain't gonna work.

Did you say a Georgia post office? Doesn't Cracker live in Georgia? Hmm something to think about Smegma.

[pspence]

This is the kind of shit I have to deal with and it only gets worse.

I'm so sorry RamseyCat you have to go through this. I have no doubt you are an awesome mom and your kids are fabulous and with you as their mom will overcome all of this and be super adults.

[pspence]

[quote='ramseycat' pid='212679' dateline='1325250197']
It is white trash behavior. You are old enough to know better. Shame on you.

Seriously Cracker, I think you are a loon.

[pspence]

[quote='Smegma' pid='212756' dateline='1325274587']
So you can read that and still blame Ramsey. What the fuck is wrong with you?

Are your kids grown and healthy and happy? Mine are.

I am very glad your children are grown, healthy and happy. Any mature person knows that life can throw hardballs and that can change in a nanno second. I pray you never have any problems with any of your children.