Daily greeting

[thekid65]

Fucking off from work today, just gonna hang out and be a freaking bum @ Mock (capitalized just for you, sweetheart). Hope you fuckers are going to be around today to entertain me.

[ramseycat]

Playing hooky and you want to hang out here?

[thekid65]

Weather sucks outside, and got shit to do around the house...so yeah, I'll hang out here in between overdue chores.

[Duchess]

Fucking off from work today, just gonna hang out and be a freaking bum @ Mock (capitalized just for you, sweetheart). Hope you fuckers are going to be around today to entertain me.

Thanks!

I have to be gone for a couple hours but I'll return by noon.

[ramseycat]

You know Kid, you sound pretty happy for someone going through a divorce.

[thekid65]

Lemmee tellya Ramsey, I'm not..and I truly wish things would have worked out. I dont like to fail, and I have, after 8 years. I've got a pretty large, and now relatively empty house. The holidays completely sucked donkey balls. I cannot recall ever waking up alone on Christmas morning.

With that being said, it was getting to a point to where I did not want to come home after work....it was getting to a point to where I was uncomfortable in my own home...it was getting to a point to where I couldnt say the simplest of things, w/o fear of it leading to an argument.

I could go on and on, and on.

In the long run, I know it's the best thing...but that doesnt change the fact that it still sucks, and I wish it wasnt so. I wouldnt classify my feelings as happy by any stretch. Relieved? Perhaps...like I said in another post, it's a mixed bag.

[Middle Finger]

Howdy, Kid.

[thekid65]

Morning MF, care for a beer?

[Middle Finger]

Sure ... anything Sam Adams works for me bud.

[thekid65]

Nice choice, they make a good brew. Closest I can come at the moment is a Fat Tire though. I might have a stray bottle of Alaskan Amber if I look hard enough out in the garage...

[LuciferLynn]

I woke up this morning thinking it was Friday....turns out it isn't. Fuck that shit.

[thekid65]

No worries, you arent the first woman that doesnt have a clue of what day of the week it is.

[LuciferLynn]

If I wasn't working 50-60 hours a week I might have an idea. Days all run into each other, one after the other.

[ramseycat]

Lemmee tellya Ramsey, I'm not..and I truly wish things would have worked out. I dont like to fail, and I have, after 8 years. I've got a pretty large, and now relatively empty house. The holidays completely sucked donkey balls. I cannot recall ever waking up alone on Christmas morning.

With that being said, it was getting to a point to where I did not want to come home after work....it was getting to a point to where I was uncomfortable in my own home...it was getting to a point to where I couldnt say the simplest of things, w/o fear of it leading to an argument.

I could go on and on, and on.

In the long run, I know it's the best thing...but that doesnt change the fact that it still sucks, and I wish it wasnt so. I wouldnt classify my feelings as happy by any stretch. Relieved? Perhaps...like I said in another post, it's a mixed bag.

It does suck Kid. Even though we know we are doing the right thing, it's still hard. But it gets better! Enjoy the quiet. And always remember you love your kid/s more than you dislike your ex. That is a lesson my ex has never quite gotten.

[IMaDick]

Lemmee tellya Ramsey, I'm not..and I truly wish things would have worked out. I dont like to fail, and I have, after 8 years. I've got a pretty large, and now relatively empty house. The holidays completely sucked donkey balls. I cannot recall ever waking up alone on Christmas morning.

With that being said, it was getting to a point to where I did not want to come home after work....it was getting to a point to where I was uncomfortable in my own home...it was getting to a point to where I couldnt say the simplest of things, w/o fear of it leading to an argument.

I could go on and on, and on.

In the long run, I know it's the best thing...but that doesnt change the fact that it still sucks, and I wish it wasnt so. I wouldnt classify my feelings as happy by any stretch. Relieved? Perhaps...like I said in another post, it's a mixed bag.

You did go on and on.

It takes 2 to fail, and 2 to mess up a relationship.

While you were feeling all sorry for yourself and how fucked up you felt in the relationship, you forgot all about how she was feeling.

She was as alone as you were.

[thekid65]

Thanks for pointing out the incredibly obvious Dick.

No doubt about it that it was a ⁵⁰⁄₅₀ deal. I dont think you'll see any mention in any post from me otherwise. Nor will you ever read me posting anything negative about her. And I havent forgotten her feelings in the least little bit. We've both been rather cordial through this whole deal...albeit the communication is defo uncomfortable.

When ya have time to reflect, and really take a hard look at shit...you can sometimes see how little you had in common, and that perhaps you shouldnt have been married in the first place.

[IMaDick]

or maybe it's the 16 "I's" in the first post and the similar attitude which is in the second.

Two people living as "I's" don't stand a chance. a relationship is "we" or "you". Not Me an I.

I went through a similar deal many years ago, it taught me how to be successful in a relationship, and what it takes to build a successful relationship.

It's all about the direction of thought it always has to be outward, when it turns inward and the thought process is all about "I" then failure is just a matter of time. two people living in the "I" world will never make it.

[Duchess]

two people living in the "I" world will never make it.

How about a me world? It's all about me. Memememe.

[IMaDick]

two people living in the "I" world will never make it.

How about a me world? It's all about me. Memememe.

Words can confusing but me and I are the same thing.

[Duchess]

Yes, Dick, I know. Can I please just dick around?